How to be The Genuine Authentic You

Working with a qualified Life Coach can help you find an easy way of living a more honest and true life so your conscience is clear and you can really enjoy yourself.

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Coming from a background in both corporate life and entertainment I’ve had plenty of time to become familiar with a wide variety of people. Those who fit in, those who stood out. Those who desperately wanted to stand out but couldn’t find their genius and those who blatantly stood out but wanted nothing more than to just be part of the clan - either because they had no ambition, no belief in themselves or didn’t like the tall poppy syndrome their less gifted friends inflicted upon them.

For example:
I’ve watched a bi-sexual friend who felt forced to go over-the-top camp and to hide his feelings towards women so as not to be rejected by his gay friends who would not tolerate anyone sitting on the fence.

I’ve watched a transvestite try too hard at dressing up, consequently being rejected by both males and females. Instead of bringing out the feminine side of himself he simply wore a "costume" which made him look and feel like a fake.

We've all seen people in the workplace say what they really think and then immediately flip to what someone else wants in order to stay in favour.

I’ve been amazed at the lengths people go to, which contradict their true selves, in order to fit in with a particular group of people.

I, myself in my younger years have worn rougher clothes, added profanity to my vocabulary and tried to act cool in order to fit in. It just wasn’t me and it made me feel empty, unfulfilled. Others may put on airs and graces, groom themselves to within an inch of their life, take out a mortgage to buy a car and are cruel to people who remind them of their former selves. I’m sure most of us have behaved in a less than true manner at some stage in our life. Are you doing it now?

By bending to fit in with what you think those around you expect, you can end up feeling somehow, like a bit of a fraud. You may not be able to put your finger on what is not working, but you know something’s not right.

If you’re interested in learning how past lives have influence over your current life, you’re always welcome to visit a clinical hypnotherapist in your local area. Always check around for referrals and do some forum research on the internet to make sure you’re getting an ethical professional.

If you want to check out what earlier influences in your current life have created your behaviour and thought patterns, best go to a clinical psychologist or counsellor for some advice.

For me as a personal Life coach though, I’m more interested in taking you from where you are right now and moving you FORWARD to find the genuine you. We can work towards discovering who you are inside, not man nor woman, not relative nor job description, but who you really are, your soul. We’d be looking to find what you’re about and what you have to offer the world.

Once we’ve figured this out, coaching can assist you to develop a lifestyle that suits the real you, a healthy way of thinking about yourself and how you’d truly like to present yourself to the world.

By finding the genuine you, any feelings of falsity will fade away. There's no longer any reason to lie, to cheat, to steal, to pretend. You can be proud you are, being the best and most authentic person you can be. When you do this, the reactions of people around you change substantially. They’ll see you as more trustworthy, more attractive in many ways and your world will be a much happier place to live.

Come play with me. Let’s find the genuine you...

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