Although this is a personal session, I am open about sharing what I discuss as you may find you have similar things you are dealing with in your life where this advice can be helpful.
In this session with Mercredan channelled by Francis Evans I have a big idea that appeals to me to put in motion even though I am feeling overwhelmed about how big the project is and how many others I will need to get it underway.
We also discussed a fascinating idea of me giving up being “nice” and being bold in pointing out destructive behaviour in others. Mercredan’s view is that it is irresponsible of me to let it slide so they can behave the same way with someone else.
The nice version of me would rather be stomped under foot and slip away as soon as possible but Merc is encouraging all of us to stand up and point it out before the behaviour gets out of control. Like a village raising a child, we can do the same with adults, of course. How quickly the world’s bad behaviours, criticisms, verbal and psychological abuses and even crimes might cease if we all took responsibility for them. Hm… something to think about.
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Channelled by Francis Evans
Interviewed by Annabelle Drumm
15 February 2016
Topics: stamping your mark on a new creation, gravitational waves, setting the time frame, gravitas, edge of the Unknown, event horizon, science, taking responsibility for the creation, appeasing others, seeing potential skills, playing dumb, taking responsibility
M: Good morning and once again it is my privilege and pleasure to come and spend these few moments of your time. I want always to remind that once One clears away the ideas and the thoughts that clutter the mind, One is then open to what is sitting always just in the background. I want to make that clear because of today’s discussion. So let us begin our conversation.
A: OK. I’ve had much bigger ideas on what it is I would like to achieve and I’ve had a little bit of too-ing and fro-ing between the old me and the new me that would be required to make this happen. Hmm, what’s the question around that? I’m assuming it just becomes more steadfast, the stronger I build upon the idea?
M: Once One begins, always, it is more clarified. Shall we take any sport you would like to take, whether it is on your football field or whether it is on the golf course or on the hockey pitch and so on. Once you begin a movement, already you are beginning to see how it can make a pathway. Often it is dependent on making that statement in terms of that particular move. Shall we say, in such a team sport, pointless if you have not everybody else on the same line. In your golf, of course, it is up to you but you still have to decide where you are going to put your ball from the beginning. It is always the first step that sets the motion. Often what occurs is that people think they understand what it is they want but they are not letting anybody else know. Do you understand?
M: And, the reason then is because they are not sure what others might say or do to get in the way or to undermine and so forth. So they cannot even make the first move without exposing what it is rather than realising when you begin you have to be committed. If you are committed, then you are not interested in what others might do to block it, only what others might do to help you along.
A: Yes, I think in this case. I don’t think I’ve been too focussed on anyone who would block it. I’m trying to find other members of the team.
M: Once you have stated your preferences then you are beginning to set the waves in motion.
A: Right. But when I have to decide where I am going to put the ball, as you say, at the moment I do not feel clear on which direction is going to be the best way for that ball to go and I’m wondering if there are better advisors who could advise me on that, unless I am to tune into my intuition for that.
M: So here you are. You are about to kick off
M: and you have no idea what to do.
M: You are then going to pass the ball directly to your opponent. Do you follow what I mean? Directly, because you are wavering in realising that first of all, kick it in the direction that seems most likely to succeed.
A: Yes yes
M: You are taking the step and you are saying “This is where I am going. Will all the helpers come to the front? Even if you are not coming to the front I am still moving forward.” Do you understand what this means? Underneath this is deeper questions so let us progress with our conversation.
(Listening back as I type now the conversation could have been steered towards my holding back, my limiting ways of doing or thinking, old patterns etc… That would have been deeper questions.)
Well even this morning… I know you gave me a lovely affirmation once before that said something like “I trust in the Universe and therefore I am willing to pursue my dreams with abandon.” This sounds lovely! I don’t quite understand how the cashflow works while the new project starts. I’d love to spend all my time on it though, I wonder if I need to taper – you know, start regular work…
M: You understand “abandon” is the word. What you always have done is hold it back.
A: Yes indeed.
M: So you are not yet willing or ready to let it take form. I am going to direct our conversation back to what has sparked your interest.
M: What science is calling gravitational waves (this is in reference to the recent press release I put on the blog here 3 days earlier, 12 February 2016 http://www.kitegirlcoach.com/gravitational-waves-new-view-for-scientists/)
Such an important concept that we have been speaking about for a very long time. So one first of all draws to oneself that which is fulfilling. The shock waves send out across Consciousness the signal at what frequency is below the ordinary structures. What it does is it affects spacetime. The creation, if you like, One’s creativity, what is known as the primary force affects spacetime by creating within it. It takes on the form of gravitational wave forms. So it is when one creates gravitas. I am going to have you look up what that means.
(Gravitas: dignity, seriousness, or solemnity of manner)
Once you have set it in motion, that is you have aligned yourself with the Universal background, you cannot affect anything until you are within the form, the structure of the spacetime continuum. And I think you will begin to understand what I am saying, though it is when one stamps one mark…
M: …that you send shudders through the continuum.
Set the time frame
M: You put into place the marking events, that is the ructions on the spacetime continuum that are necessary to draw the creation into completion.
M: So it is important that you first of all define the creation. If you do not have the creation and at least a close proximity to the time frame, how can you possibly begin the wave event?
A: The timeframe is a curious one to me. I’ve always had the impression that when you set something in motion that it’s not up to me to decide when the perfect time will be for this to come about. I realise we don’t want to make it 10 years down the track – I don’t want to keep doing this for 10 years but…
M: You have to approximate. You have to have the vicinity otherwise how can the Universe measure the wave forms.
A: OK that’s different from what I’ve done before. I will do that.
Edge of the Unknown
M: As We have spoken, We survive at the edge of the Void, of the Unknown. As such, that edge is in your terms, in your scientific terms, called the event horizon. It is from that event horizon that the Gravitas begins. It is from that horizon the wave forms progress to the moment of creation. So it is important that you draw from the vastness of the Unknown that which is necessary. That is, enough of the frameworks to draw the creation in so that, as you move towards to it, more and more definition.
A: And more gravity?
M: Of course.
A: Mm. We’ve also talked about characteristics changing in order to match a new identity …
M: Of course
A: … and over the last few days I’ve been rather stompy! (laughs) Rather aggressive. Not terms of aggressive against others but in getting things done and getting started.
Taking responsibility for the creation
M: You understand you are trying to be nice as well. You want something but you are trying to be nice. You have no idea undermining that is. Rather than being clear that you are willing to take responsibility and accountability for your creation, whatever affect it has. Do you follow? One is not interested in “nice”.
A: I think that has been happening more with where I am currently doing unpaid work at the station. Turning away from being nice and just getting the message across over and over and over until they get it, that seems to be stirring a little bit.
M: Of course. Then One is learning and what a good environment is in how to stand on the principles and not on niceness.
A: Yes yes. So to use those principles now with the new project…
M: Of course. So you are not trying to Appease which is of course such an ingrained characteristic. I want to say, why don’t you dig it out?
A: (laughs) Give it a rest.
M: Shall we say, eliminate it from your characteristics and become more responsible. Do you follow the difference between the two? Whatever you do always has consequences.
M: Being an Appeaser has consequences! Generally they are not so good for yourself. Still a consequence. So if you want the best for yourself then you have to set that in motion and accept the consequences of it.
A: Mm, I bet that would make me a much stronger Coach as well.
M: I am certain you would not be forever trying to go and help people, to help them in their stuck positions and at the same time wanting them to move and at the same time living with frustration. For the first time we are able to directly address this difficulty.
M: and if you were to review your life, see how many times this particular attitude and characteristic has upset your purpose.
A: Definitely. Is it worth looking at how that came about? Is it something I was born into this life with because I’ve used it before or a way I was brought up?
M: Shall we say, what point?
A: Mm ok
M: Better to stop.
A: (laughs) yes
M: And not be interested in looking for some excuse.
A: I wasn’t looking for an excuse. I am interested to know how these things develop. But like you say, there is no point.
M: I want to say, indeed, what occurs is that you will make it an excuse and there is no excuse. You are responsible for your life by using it to escape. It escapes responsibility rather than assuming one’s power.
A: Mm ok
M: And power of course, has to be used with care.
A: Of course.
M: So you then become careful but not appeasing.
Seeing potential skills
A: I’ve had an interesting thing come up over the last week or so from two different people who have skills that they have either learnt or comes naturally to them over many many years to the point of being unconsciously competent, that have asked of me to go and do the same thing, as if I could, and me feeling like I don’t even know where to start. I interested to know why both of these things have come up for me recently.
M: You understand, who is saying you do not know where to start?
M: Mm! You understand, you stand in the middle of your football field, you have to start the game! You have to move and you are constantly worrying, what if? What if I didn’t succeed?
A: But in one of those cases I did try and didn’t get very far at all. I thought, all I really needed was the basics of how to play the game, if we’re talking about a ball again. I don’t have any rules at all. I don’t know the guidelines of what I am trying to achieve. Well, I know what I’m trying to achieve but, I don’t know how the game is played.
M: Let us shift a little focus and take your game of chess. The person who starts the game defines the moves. Doesn’t look for them. There are certain moves that one has to follow. One has certain things that one can do with the pieces but the game is defined by the first move.
A: Of course. But if you don’t even know how the pieces move.
M: Of course that is not true. Of course you can ask “how do I move this piece?” That is a one-off consideration.
A: Exactly. That’s where I got to. I got the point where I was surprised I was asked to play the game of chess without knowing how the pieces move.
M: So someone thinks that you are lying.
A: Lying? Or more competent than I actually am?
M: I want to say that you are playing dumb! Do you follow what I mean? Because they can see something that you cannot.
A: Yes I agree with that.
M: So you are dumb.
M: You are pretending that you have to have everything in line. You have to already won the game before you even start to play it.
A: Well that would be fun.
M: That would not be fun at all. That would be boring.
M: What would be the point in wasting all that time playing the game that you already know you have won. And you have done this over lifetimes! You have done this over this lifetime setting up your own sibling to play the game and pretend that you have no position and do not know the rules.
A: Setting up my own sibling?
M: Of course! You are playing dumb with this one. And I want to say she doesn’t trust you as a result. Do you follow what I mean?
A: Does it matter?
M: It doesn’t matter, of course not but, it matters if you continue to think you haven’t got anything to play with.
A: Yes OK
M: If you are still pretending that you are not more advanced than you are.
A: And here again, it’s taking stock but knowing where to look within yourself to find what stock there is.
M: You understand, once again you find another excuse for not playing the game. That is, if you don’t know the rules, start the game and find them out as it goes along. Become highly a-sensitised.
M: Of course, you are watching with great delight, every step of the way. So the rules become more and more apparent.
M: So you are passing the ball to your fellow officers along the way. When you begin, it will not take too long for you to realise that you have not been unaware of the rules, you have been playing dumb.
A: (laughs) yes OK. I guess I have noticed that again in my sandbox station where I spend my time that I pick up things very quickly. I didn’t realise because I had no comparison. So I see that I can move quickly and if I keep that in mind with this project too, then I can see that I am more advanced.
M: And I want to say when you stamp your mark at the beginning, the waves, indeed, progress forward.
A: Mm. Why do you use the words “stamp your mark”?
M: Because it is a sound. The gravitational field is a sound. “In the beginning”, it is said, “was the Word”. It does not say “In the Beginning there was God.” It says “In the Beginning there was the Word and the Word was with God”. The word and God then, are the same thing and it says then, “In the Beginning was the Word and the word was with God and the Word was God.” That ultimately means that whatever is stated must form. It is God. It is the power itself. So it is clear then, first the intention, the idea, and then the STAMP. This is the commitment. This is the “with god” and then the creation “this is God.” I define it. Does that make sense?
A: Yes it does. Thank you.
M: Once you share, once you state, once you create the concrete-ness of vision and you forget whether someone else is going to steal whatever it is and you are simply creating; then you become the power that sets it free.
A: Hm. Very powerful, thank you.
M: You understand, not for somebody else, not because of somebody else, not held back by someone else, not interested in what others have to say, only being aware that whatever you create comes with consequences. That means there are sequences that are aligned with it and they move in all directions.
A: That’s very hard to consider all consequences. You cannot see all those directions.
M: Of course not. You are not asked to see the consequences, you are asked to be responsible for them. Sometimes you think you are being nice, you think that you are doing something for someone’s benefit and the consequence is they take it and use it destructively. Do you follow what I mean?
A: Do you have an example of that?
M: Shall we say, you let somebody get away with some behaviour that is not very good, then they use it somewhere else and that you think that you are not responsible. Of course you are responsible because you did not act upon that awakening. Upon one’s realisation that the right thing is to be decisive.
A: Right. It takes some confidence to do that.
M: That is of course the truth.
A: A new characteristic.
M: Of course. One has to tap in to One’s own personal confidence, their own personal power and you gain that by making such statements.
A: OK. So it’s time for me to make my Word!
M: Of course and to share it with everyone. To be excited when you share it. To watch yourself to see if there is any doubt arising. If you think that as you tell someone you are trying to hold it back and so on, these are all great and useful lessons. They bring to your attention what characteristics you are carrying so you can begin to eliminate.
A: OK, Dig them out.
M: That is correct and that is to take away all of your history. All of it arises because of history of ideas and attitudes that you have adopted in what you consider is necessary for survival and in the end of the day, there is no survival anyway.
M: You understand? You are going to transform at some point anyway.
A: Yes indeed.
M: So why worry about it?
A: Yep OK. Thank you. Thank you for the inspiration.
M: Is that enough for today?
A: It is, thank you.
M: Then thank you for your time and your interest and your willingness, at least, to apply. Then thank you and good morning.
A: Good morning.
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