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Managing Social Media Anger

social media anger managementAs we move to a new world of transparency and accountability there is going to be a huge amount of past actions “bubbling up” to the surface for everyone to see. Some of it apparently insignificant but, much of it could be unbearable acts of cruelty and injustice. How do we stay sane in this new world?

Social media is already rife with passionate conversations that might only have previously happened the pub and caused a punch up. Yes, we are a world of sinners and, let’s face it, we find it very comforting to be able to point our finger at someone else for what they’ve done and be outraged, shocked, scandalised – as the media have taught us to do. The media love a good punch up so, by stirring it in us, we become the news they can report on tomorrow.

There is so much coming to the surface though, far worse yet to come, we are going to need a new way to handle it rather than simply being shocked and outraged.

We have been taught by the wise ones that in order to create a world of peace we must start with ourselves.

Start with Self

The basis for this is simple yet powerful. Every instant of the day and night we emit a vibration ranging from high to low. High represents pure love, happiness, contentment, bliss. Low represents fear, anger, sadness, powerlessness. It’s like a thermometer and as we go through our day the gauge moves up and down. Our thoughts can alter our vibration pushing it one way or the other. Our emotions show us where we sit on the gauge. We can alter both our thoughts and emotions to alter our vibration.

Where we are sitting on the gauge affects the world around us. When we are in love, very little can go wrong. Technology works, opportunities arise, people around us smile and are drawn to us. We are like a little piece of sunshine and everyone loves sitting in our warm radiance because it raises their vibration too.

When we are having a crappy day the opposite occurs. Things start going wrong, accidents happen, equipment breaks down, happy people shrink away from us and grumpy, rude people are drawn to us.

Simple right?

So when we look at the news, on social media or hear about some injustice that has happened in the world done to people we can relate to, or our food, plants, animals, our environment in general, that can get us really angry. Not just a little anger growing as we read it but, it can stir a roaring volcano within us that is ready to explode releasing anger we have pent up – not just in this lifetime, but many lifetimes of injustice that we don’t even remember.

Going a little weird here but open your mind to the possibilities…

There is no separation and time is not linear.

All human lives in the past are connected to us and co-exist on the same plane when you lift yourself out of a time line.

As we move into this 5D world we are more closely aware and can relate to past injustices. We “feel” them even though we don’t remember them. We are all connected and feel the guilt of the perpetrator as much as the trauma of the victim. We have played both roles and experienced both sides of the story.

I’m sure Jesus taught something along those lines that when you harm another you are harming yourself. It is a Buddhist principal as well. That’s why none of the truly enlightened teachers harmed others. They never picked up a weapon and harmed another person. There is no separation. So the Human Race has been harming itself for millennia.

The time has come to halt the harm and begin the healing.

You and me and everyone currently alive were chosen for this very special moment in the timeline we are currently focussed in to be able to handle the tremendous job of healing the world. We cannot do it if we are angry or fearful.

So we come to a dichotomy. We have all this shit we’ve done to each other we need to bring to the surface to be recognised, acknowledged and mended. At the same time we need to do it without destroying ourselves in guilt, fear and anger.

It’s a hell of a challenge but we can do it. We can.

Compassion is the key

I’m not saying we pat a criminal, rapist, murderer, predator on the back and say they need to behave better tomorrow. There are consequences that need to be paid in this lifetime and even Karma makes sure that if you think you’ve got away with something and avoided jail, you will definitely pay for it in other ways far worse. It will be paid in this lifetime in multiple areas of your life and is due much faster than it ever was before.

So again, we start with Self.

Compassion for Self

You know what you’ve done in this life where you took advantage, stole, harmed with words, thoughts or actions (Yes, even thoughts harm others for there is no separation).

Blame and guilt are a waste of time. Take a look at some of things you’ve done a bit at a time. I know I have. For some things, even from primary (elementary) school I’ve tracked the child down and apologised. Most of the time they don’t remember me doing it at all and we get to have pleasant conversation catching up on the news. It is healing for me though – that’s what’s important. It is me who was carrying it around allowing it to subconsciously affect my thoughts and behaviour, preventing me from allowing myself a lucky break, a gift, an offer of help, because in my mind such a cruel person (ie. me, I) was not deserving.

In cases where you can’t track down the original person, make amends in other ways. After all, there is no separation (I’m repeating that because it can’t be overestimated). If you caused harm in one way, reach out and help someone in the opposite way.

If there is no separation then we reach that original person through our good deeds today anyway. 

Even those we harmed who have passed away will feel the change in you and your willingness to make amends. Random acts of kindness help the person you are giving to and also help you heal yourself. Plus it feels good which raises your vibration.

We can’t do this all in a week. Things may pop up one at a time or you may feel swamped by a bundle of them bubbling up all at once. Be caring of yourself as you let them bubble up. Like a nasty boil on the skin, you’ve got to let it come to the surface where you can see it before it can be cleaned up. It’s painful, yes, but so very valuable. (And yes, I realise a boil is not the perfect analogy for it may not have been there in the first place but, we don’t know that for sure. The body physically expresses what is going on in our thoughts and emotions anyway so perhaps it represents what really was sitting under there all that time.)

Compassion for others

The slow healing process of mending ourselves changes our view of what other dastardly deeds others do in the world. It’s not about “normalising” crime and doing harm to others. It’s about understanding that no one harms another in the first place unless they have some hurt or fear which spurred the action.

I’ll say it again, consequences will be paid either through the courts and jail or paid via Karma in much worse ways in all areas of their life. That is no excuse for you to lower your vibration and lash out in angry words or actions in response. Then you mess up your own world again and the cycle of violence continues.

Becoming more aware of our responses, reactions and the emotional gauge at every instant of the day is what makes us smarter in slowing down the cycle of violence. There are things other people have done in this lifetime that will bubble to the surface in the news and other sources of information that are truly appalling. Finding your own grounded sense of calm is going to be a challenge. If you need to express it, find an healthy way to do it that harms or stirs no one else.

I’ve found little spurts of anger popping up lately. I simply journal it all. Vomit it out on paper, as writers often describe it. Set yourself in an imaginary “room of the socially and politically unacceptable”. Here you can express all your shit, then pack the room up and dissolve it into thin air so you can get on with your day and night free of those emotions.

Sarah Biermann has some wonderful exercises for doing this which you can access on her site imag-creation.com

Louise Hay talked about screaming into and punching a pillow though I’m not sure I’d want to try sleeping on that poor pillow afterwards.

It’s not about suppressing your emotions, it’s about managing them in a way that dissolves them without harming yourself or anyone else.

Look for your own triggers and don’t get caught up in passionate conversations on Social Media where you can plainly see no one is open to alternate perspectives. You are wasting your time literally.

Love conquers all. Start with Self.


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Rebirth of Annabelle Drumm the MC

Sydney Corporate Event MCs Master of CeremoniesAn Eclipse in ancient times was always seen as a moment when each could take time out to be introspective, asking the heart what would bring the most joy when the sun / moon emerges out the other side. A bit like an opportunity to create a new personal world. This time I thought I would join the challenge.

Earlier this month I mentioned a simulcast I would be hosting for Fine Music 102.5 called Live from the Joan. This was performed in a theatre which could seat around 600 but was live broadcast on FM radio and the internet to a much larger audience. I was a co-host last year with two other Presenters and as a co-host you work with the others in a joint effort keeping energy levels on an equal par.

Hosting on my own this year meant I could do things my way. With the theme for the event focussed on young performers I chose to bend my interviews with each of them around building their career as a professional musician – something many young performers are interested in.

We all had a lot of fun and the audience were superb! So very generous and responsive to what was happening on the stage, I was blown away. I enjoyed it so much and was reminded of how much I loved working on the stage all those years before I gave it up to have children. I think the heart was yearning to go in this direction again.

Getting personal

Indulge me here for a moment because my personal story might help you look at your own personal story.

I have to admit for most – no, I would say all – of my pre-children career I fought valiantly to stay out of the spotlight. International dance tours offered I would find excuses to turn away from, starring television roles I would sabotage. I loved doing TV commercials where no one would recognise me. I ran a dance company where I was just one of the line up.

This extended beyond my own performing too. I married a man where I dedicated all my energy to growing his confidence and his career. Being a Mother was about nurturing young souls, giving everything I could to raising them to the best of my ability. Being an Agent for 15 years was about making my Performing artists – other people – stars in their own right boosting their profiles, negotiating hard for better rates and conditions, increasing their income. Being a Coach was about taking each client and moving them up the ranks to a better position too.

All this was about putting other people ahead of me. It took me a long time to question, why do I put others ahead of me? Why am I happy to fight for their right to stand in the spotlight yet shirk it myself?

Where did this crappy mindset come from?

Looking back as far as I could remember, one major turning point for me happened in early school years. In primary (elementary) school everything was good. I had great teachers who encouraged me to be big.

Moving to an intermediate school – the equivalent these days of say grades 6 and 7 – meant I suddenly needed to learn to ride a bike and ride it several kilometres in peak hour traffic on the roads (no kids allowed to ride on the footpath in those days) to and from school. In the same week I also now had to ride in the dark with a puny little lamp on the front of my bike to and from ballet school which was even further away.

The new academic school required a uniform. Uniqueness was not acceptable and there were strict rules to follow. I was no longer outstanding.

The mental stress of such a dramatic change freaked me out and put me in bed for 6 weeks with a mysterious “tummy ache”. Eventually when they managed to get me back to my new school it was half way through the term and all the kids had made their new friends so I was trying to break into these new circles leaving me open to bullying. Not a great start.

Here’s where the fun really begins…

In the school musical the next year, still without many friends, I was one of the dancers in the line-up with everyone else.

During rehearsal close to opening night, one of the teachers took me aside for a very serious talk. She said “Annabelle you are dancing really big and that is standing out. We need to you dance smaller please.”

I found this really puzzling. “But shouldn’t I be dancing the best I can?” I asked.

“No,” she said, “you need to dance smaller or you’ll make the other kids feel bad. That would be awful, wouldn’t it? Then their parents will feel bad because their children don’t look so good so everyone will feel bad.”

Oh, my god! For a little girl who was already bullied and had been struggling to make friends this was the last straw. I went home feeling really disturbed. How could I possibly not dance the best I could? This didn’t make sense.

I asked my dad for his opinion. He was an orchestra Conductor and deep in the professional show business world so I respected his viewpoint much more than a school teacher. To my surprise he agreed with her.

“If that’s what the teacher wants you to do, then you do it.”

I’m not saying that was the only moment in my history I was told to dance small. A teacher said something similar to me in high school as well just to really put another nail in the coffin. Amazing.

I’m not saying it’s all their fault either. Our reactions are what make our lives, not what is thrown at us. Other people might rally against such comments and go on to becoming big stars regardless. My reaction however, was to be a “good girl” and do as I was told.  As a result, in adulthood I always berated myself when it came to standing in the spotlight.

It’s vain

It’s egotistical

It’s selfish

and, the killer of them all…

It makes other people feel bad.

Starting to see the light

Decades have past since then. My coaching clients have taught me so much – the irony of that always makes me laugh. One client in particular, a number of years back, was constantly berating herself for loving beautiful things and admiring beautiful people. She would tell herself it was shallow, superficial, materialistic. Her mother used to hassle her for this and she was embarrassed to tell anyone. As we worked through the coaching sessions, she started to give herself permission to do what brings her the most joy which was to admire the aesthetic.

It seemed to make all the difference in the world. She started to dress better, joined a new design company all about the visual where she was mixing with others who were in love with the visual. It suited her. It brought her joy. All areas of her life started to click into place.

I can see that now and how it relates to my own crappy limiting belief. I’ve had other reminders along the way such as being thrown into a performing job I did not feel prepared for where I was out front singing. Good grief! An ex-dancer singing. Oh well. There were no complaints and even a few thank you’s so it can’t have been that bad.

What it showed me however, like a major epiphany, was that being out front of an audience was not a vain thing for me to do. It brought me joy because I had the opportunity to lift the vibe of a whole group of people all at once. I knew how to do that and could feel their vibe lifting and lowering throughout a performance like flickering flames in a fire so I could almost play them like an instrument. Pretty weird.

Apparently great speakers do that all the time. Lift people up, then let them subside a bit before lifting them again, like a well written symphony. Great sales people do it in a sales pitch as well, just for a smaller audience.

Getting back on the stage

So what if I started to do more MC work? Would you give me a chance?

I’ve started to build a new page to promote my MC and Compere services here. I can host on the stage for Awards nights and concerts but also facilitate more casual styled weekend workshops, staff bootcamps and outdoor events.

http://www.kitegirlcoach.com/sydney-conference-after-dinner-mc-host-presenter-compere/

I will add more info to the page as I go along.

Do you know anyone who needs an MC or Compere for their up and coming event or concert in Sydney?

Even standing in for someone else at the last minute is a possibility.

Click here to contact me if you have an event coming up or can introduce me to someone who has an upcoming event in need of a host.

I look forward to raising the vibe of your audience. 🙂

Annabelle

 


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Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine Part One

I seem to be a lot calmer about the wider Shift of Consciousness now that I have been exploring it for some 7 or 8 years. Mercredan had said I was nearing the end of that exploration and I now have a contract/agreement to write a book about it to help others understand. I’ve started the book maybe 4 times now but not found my flow so, I once again, set it aside until the inspiration comes as I know it will.

My new topic I seem to be hungry to learn about is the gender issue, the sexuality issue. There seems to be so many people in the world out of balance. Not enough of them accepting of both sides to themselves, the masculine and the feminine we all have inside. People who get turned on by pain or being defaecated on. People who totally reject the gender they chose before they were born. Heterosexuals who reject friends who choose to be Homosexual. Homosexuals who reject friends who are Bi-sexual. Not enough acceptance, love or fluidity between the Yin and Yang we all possess.

Mercredan has said in a number of our sessions over the years that I rely on my masculine traits to be “successful” in the business world. I do this, I think, to emulate my father who was overly dominating in our household. I watched him stomp over my mother so many times and must have decided as a child that if I was “strong” like him then no man would stomp on me.

Yet, Mercredan was saying I veered towards the masculine because I thought the feminine was weak and that I was wrong in believing so. He also inferred that if I found the strength of my feminine I would be far more effective in my work, my relationships and every part of life.

Awesome. OK. So, where’s the answers?

Ah! They must be found. Mercredan has never spoon fed me answers. I must seek them and come to my own conclusions.

So, I think the place to start is to get a clearer idea of the definition of both Masculine and Feminine. Let’s start with the Masculine.

What is Masculinity and what are Masculine traits?

This video I did a few years back had some basics in it.

Each gender has characteristics which can be used in a positive and negative way. You’ll see this in the readings of astrologists and experts in zodiac as well who say hey, you’ve got this characteristic in your sign or on this birth date. It can be used for benefit yourself and the larger whole in this way. It can also be used to harm self and the larger whole in this other way. Your choice…

For now, I’m not just looking for a generally “manly” set of characteristics though. Let’s see if we can define the ultimate man. The evolved man. The Divine Masculine.

Search results brought up this superb article which I will copy for you. It has come from Spiritual Counsellor Sunyata Satchitananda. Here’s the link to the website and I will post at the bottom of the article too as the content is superb.  http://sunyatasatchitananda.com


The Divine Masculine

by Sunyata Satchitananda

What is the Divine Masculine?

The Divine Masculine represents a spiritual, psychological, archetypal ideal—the best and most inspiring, elevating, and restorative aspects of masculine expression and manifestation in the universe. “He”—along with the Divine Feminine—exists on a transpersonal, universal level that manifests through an individual’s psyche and becomes thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors.

As multifaceted, spiritually-embodied beings, we each have a complex psychological and emotional constitution that produces one’s inner health and outer reality. Each one of us, man and woman, carries within our psyche both masculine and feminine archetypes. From these influences come all our conscious thoughts, plans, desires, goals and agendas. They intertwine and cooperate to produce a uniquely personal expression and experience of life.

For those seeking an expanded understanding of the Self, the Divine Masculine is not a distant, detached, jealous and vengeful male deity. The Divine Masculine (along with the Divine Feminine) acts as a shining mirror of the Self, revealing aspects that need compassionate attention and support to become one’s highest potential.

For a man reading this, you may wish to expand your understanding of masculine archetypes and see how these are showing up currently in your life and then consider evoking a more fuller, or “higher” expression. Men who consciously assimilate Divine Masculine energy express higher levels of awareness and spiritual states of being along with greater satisfaction in life experience. Women reading this are equally served by contemplating Divine Masculine qualities while seeking to integrate these into their inner male expression.

God, King, Priest, Warrior, Lover, Sage

The Divine Masculine comprises a group of archetypal energies that drives thoughts, emotions, desires, and behaviors culminating in one’s sense of right-relationship, or “flow” with life and feelings of satisfaction and well-being. There are many archetypes present in the psyche—six have been chosen to represent those with the strongest influence on conducive psychological functioning and one’s psycho-spiritual evolution. By regular conscious feeding of these archetypal energies—weaker aspects are nurtured to fullness.

A Suggested Practice

Those seeking to discover and “grow into” their expression of the Divine Masculine will want to:

  1. Contemplate what the “fullness” of each expression means to you.
  2. Contemplate how these currently show up in your life. Look for areas and ways you are already embodying #1.
  3. Don’t look for the places you are deficient or lack in the fullness of the archetype. Only look for what you ARE doing.

As you acknowledge and accept what you are already doing, you will notice more places where you already are, or are beginning to, embody the fullness of the archetype. Its like seeing in a dark room, after some time your sight “adjusts,” or expands, and you see more of what was already there. As you contemplate each archetype, you will notice more and more areas where it already exists in your awareness and behavior. This is due to radiation of the archetype energy spreading out in a “blossoming” or unfolding effect within the psyche and happens whenever archetype energy is accessed and stimulated. Contemplation also strengthens the awareness. Two things are accomplished—you see what is already there, reinforcing what is presently integrated, and you strengthen what is beginning to emerge in your awareness, behavior and ability.

Any aspects of the archetype that seem “new” can be integrated by imagining what it would feel like to think or behave in this new way and see what shifts of thinking and behaving that produces. As you do, look for circumstances or opportunities that could be positively affected by adopting these higher concepts, principles and motivations and seek to enable their presence.

The Archetypes

1 – God

The God archetype is the transcendent, connected-to-all-that-is, aspect of self. It is the part of us that resonates with transpersonal harmonious love for everyone and all beings. The God archetype is the domain of spirituality, mystical experience and intuition.

A man expressing the God archetype in its fullness feels like: he is synergistically connected to all that is and has the confidence of “knowing” resulting from this connection, has spiritual balance and orientation, and emanates unconditional love to all in his sphere of presence.

His power is in his presence—his spiritually centered awareness focused completely in the present moment. He embodies Love, compassionately expressed to whomever is within his sphere of presence.

When with him, you find yourself inspired with new ideas and inspired connections—creating new experiences. He stands for and contributes to the furtherance of the divine-right of happiness; equally for all races, genders, and sexual expressions.

He leads by inspiring: creativity, beauty, and truth seeking—fulfilling the highest ideals and principles, through example and not aspiration alone.

He is spiritually guided, supporting and sponsoring: creation, transcendence, and resolution in all its forms. He seeds thought forms and ideas—releasing ownership for the greater good.

A man in the fullness of the God archetype shows up as unconditionally loving, inclusive, open, welcoming, heart-centered, spiritually focused, supportive and inspirational.

2- King (Father)

The archetype of the King actively plays the central role of order and blessing, benevolence and fertility, strength and balance. While the God archetype seeds thought forms and ideas, the King births them and actively looks to their growth and further manifestation into existence —being the steward of these.

The King archetype governs the domain of material-manifestation, family, “kingdom”—your sphere of influence including your relationship to individuals and physical locations: i.e. home, neighborhood, community, etc., material wealth and abundance.

The King archetype has the sterling attribute of “unyielding strength of character” and is relied upon by all in the realm to not yield to less noble, self-serving interests or compulsions. Thusly, the King inspires and unites the realm to follow his leading. He combines this strength with intelligence, right-action and wisdom.

Being with a man who is in the fullness of the King archetype feels like this: He is supportive and nurturing of the well-being and easeful participation and happiness of those he engages with. He is a stabilizing and calming influence in all circumstances. By his balance and “potency” (strength, effectiveness) others are comforted and influenced to imitate his example. His demeanor is “seasoned” and carries wisdom with it, not adolescent impulsiveness.

The King archetype is complex with multiple aspects that comprise this unique expression of the divine. His wisdom carries a transpersonal selflessness—like a kind father. He is an agent of the divine having reverence for all life. He is benevolent, evenhanded, calm, caring and thoughtfully present—yet passionate in his whole-hearted support. He is settled in the knowing that everything is as it should be, everything changes, and there is no lack or anything to genuinely fear.

3- Priest

The Priest archetype is possibly the least known or understood and the least supported in our culture. The Priest archetype domain is that of spiritual awareness and insight—connecting with and revealing “occult” (that which is hidden) knowledge of the unknown realm to the enlightenment of the self and selfless benefit for the many.

The Priest is the transducer, connector, and facilitator between the material and spiritual world—one’s conscious personality and the divine realm of Spirit. He is a mediator of the powerful energies that comprise one’s inner community of archetypes and personality components, working closely with the King and Sage archetypes to create, manifest and bring spirit into form.

The Priest calls forth and directs energies between unconscious and conscious awareness, affecting our felt sense of well-being and competence in life. The Priest nurtures and care-takes the spiritual relationship between the ego-personality and Spirit, the Divine.

The Priest archetype in its fullness feels like this: You are with a man who is the master of his spiritual and material realities and knows how to call forth from spiritual storehouses what he needs to transmute energies that would overtake or topple other men not in this fullness. He is thoughtful and reflective, having depth to his presence and intellect. He knows how to obtain higher perspective and detach from (or become neutral to) inner and outer storms and how to connect deep inner truths and resources with his experience of life. He is not easily pushed or pulled by faddish influences but with grace and insight he brings power and confidence to difficult situations requiring resolution, change or shifting.

4 – Warrior

The Warrior archetype is the most represented and exploited archetype in our culture—being elevated and revered by the dominant patriarchal society as: disciplined leader and protector. While these are two of the Warrior’s sterling qualities, it is what comprises his fullness that makes this archetype truly a divine expression.

Warrior qualities include: decisiveness and clarity of thought, selfless service, genuine humility, strength of experiential “knowing,” courage to do what serves the highest good even when it is a personal challenge to do so. He serves to maintain and support established systems and forms consciously, without blind rigidity, being exemplary in loyalty to a greater good beyond personal gain.

He remains calm and centered while under challenge. He is inwardly aligned and integrated—in touch with his feelings, being warm and compassionate, appreciative and generous at every opportunity. He fights “the good fight” in favor of benefiting the greater good and making life more fulfilling for everyone.

Being in the presence of a man in the fullness of the Warrior archetype feels like this: His strength of stature is evident and unheralded—not needing accolades or compliments. He contributes without fanfare or needing to direct or “lord” himself over others. He eagerly responds to requests of service showing respect to all—especially to those “elder” to him, as well as other men, women, children, animals and the earth.

He “knows himself” and finds his place in collaborative projects, being fulfilled and contented with the collaboration and not by ambition or competition. The man in the fullness of the Warrior makes you feel safe while not being oppressed by his stature or protection.

5- Lover

The Lover archetype is perhaps the most misunderstood and yet familiar primal energy. The Lover archetype has been distorted into a selfish and dense expression that lacks breadth or spirit. Yet the Lover is the meeting and combining of sex and spirit, Eros, the universal urge to bond and unite. He comprises the alchemy that infuses spirit into flesh with desire -prompting engagement and erotic expression. While most commonly expressed in romantic and sexual form, the Lover archetype contains a much fuller, divine, expression:

The Lover archetype in its fullness is the primal energy of passion, exquisite engagement with life and ecstatic being -an alive and vivid world view. The domain of the Lover archetype is the primal urges of being: sex, food, well-being, procreation and is manifested in creative adaptation and initiatory experience.

The Lover is the epitome of Sensual. He is intimately interested in all forms of sensory engagement, seeing the world in all its splendor. He is the archetype of play and healthy embodiment without shame. The Lover archetype has a mystical quality that seeks to experience beauty and unity in daily life.

The man experiencing the fullness of the Lover archetype feels like this: He is sensual. He is open and invites you to touch—his mind, body and soul. He is “connected” (integrated) and relishes physical, psychological and spiritual connection with others that highlights integrated expanded awareness and experience. He is immersed in the experience, present in the moment, focused on the quality of the connection and engagement. He appreciates beauty in all its forms and makes each moment a “work of art.” He appreciates the “sensuous” experience of life and resonates deeply on many levels of being. He is sensitive to others needs and moods and is intuitively responsive. He is “in his body” —animating it with vital energy through dance, yoga, or movement. He brings a “joy of life” to any engagement or conversation. He has stopped “performing” and has relaxed into “being” -feeling without pressure to “accomplish” or “gain.“

6 – Sage

The Sage archetype is a very important aspect of the Divine Masculine expression for our species. The Sage is closely aligned with the Priest archetype, however the Sage emanates an additional aspect of advocating “right action,” dharma. The Sage is the Ego in service to, and “right-relationship” with, the higher Self’s power.

The Sage observes, tracks, scans, monitors data from all sources (within and without) and channels wisdom leading to “right action.” The Sage is detached from ordinary life flow, watching and engaging energies with wisdom and toned action as needed for synchronistic harmony of life.

Being with a man in the fullness of the Sage archetype feels like this: Unheralded, he quietly and deftly shares with others wise counsel and channeled direction that shifts the receiver into new possibilities and pathways that reflect “right action” for their life path. He quietly supports the wisdom of others, not seeking acclaim or notice for his contribution. He is thoughtful and reflective and rests in his felt connection with spirit and grounded connection with the earth, Gaia, the source of his wisdom and insight.

The Sage’s importance comes to the fore during crisis and intense need. Through the uniquely formed conduit that the Sage embodies, wisdom and “right action” become clear. With the Sage’s contribution we feel confident and assured that our path is the right one for us, we respond to life with a calm easefulness that transitions crisis and change with grace and wisdom.

Where the Priest archetype has a primary focus on the “inward” realm, the Sage archetype has an “outward” focus of service —to manifest channeled wisdom into being.

Author’s Website link: http://sunyatasatchitananda.com


Wow! Gets me excited just reading about it. If you’re a man looking to become the very best version of yourself, Sunyata’s exercise is a good one.

Finding your Divine Masculine Exercise

  1. Take each of the 6 archetypes and journal a bit about what each of them means to you. God, King, Priest, Warrior, Lover, Sage.
  2. Read Sunyata’s version of them above and imagine if you had those traits. How would you go about your day? How would you treat people? How would you carry yourself and communicate with others? What difference would it make in your life compared to how you relate to people now?
  3. Appreciate what pieces of these archetypes you are already demonstrating. The more you notice within yourself, the more potential you draw out of yourself. By putting some focus on it each day you can slowly draw your way of thinking and behaviour patterns towards the Divine version of yourself over time.
  4. I would add, as you notice the changes in yourself, more “noble”, more humble, more of service etc., also notice how others alter their own behaviour around you as a result. They may be inspired by the new you. They are likely to treat you differently and with a lot more respect – the type that can only be earned, not demanded.

That’s it for now. Come talk to me on the Facebook page with your findings and we’ll look at the Divine Feminine next.

Annabelle


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Channeling Life After Death

Although there are many theories, scriptures and opinion on where we go after death one thing that’s become very clear is that humans do not disappear. They still exist once they have passed away and are often contactable. In this YouTube Channel channel interview I speak with American author Joe Higgins who has been psychic his whole life and is an author of books bringing advice from those who have passed to the other side of the veil.

His latest book is specifically for War Veterans with a collection of advice from those who were in a similar situation in history. They provide comfort and guidance for soldiers/war veterans in a way the rest of us cannot offer.

It was a unique interview – I’m sure you’ll enjoy it.

Joe Higgins website: http://joehiggins.com

Joe Higgins books

The Channel channel is a space where I interview people who use channelling and intuition in their life and career. Subscribe to the YouTube channel here to get the latest interviews as they are uploaded.


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Lisa Brown: Awakening symptoms

Ascension symptoms, shift in conciousnessAlthough we’ve explored Ascension symptoms and awakening for a while now on this blog, it never hurts to add another way of expressing it via another teacher or channeller. Sometimes you wonder what the hell they’re talking about, then another channeller offers the explanation in a different way and it all makes sense.

Lisa Transcendence Brown offers it here along with a nice little reference near the beginning of blockages linked with a few different parts of the body. They make sense to me. When you look at other people around you – or yourself – and see illness, disease or some sort of happening that affects one of these body parts, it tells you what sorts of blocks are being experienced. Although there aren’t any major scientific research projects that I know of related to proving this – much of the science world has not yet learnt to quantify or value emotions, love or mindset as part of the equation – I’ve seen plenty of examples myself in family, friends and coaching clients who, once they resolve the block, the illness just dissolves of its own accord.

Louise Hay looked into this a few decades back in her book “You Can Heal Your Life” though the instructions on how to clear up the blocks were fairly limited at that stage. Now we are so far advanced since those early days and can often find our own cures. If we can’t and we are willing to let the block go, we ask for assistance and sure enough, the right therapist, healer or caring person will drop into our lives to provide the kick in the bum we need to get moving on it.

I’m not wild about the explanation at the beginning giving the impression of “us versus them” in Light Beings versus Humans. We are all connected and there is no single light switch that clicks you from one state to the other. I prefer the saying “all ships rise with the tide”. We are all lifting slowly but surely. Those that choose not to rise will soon find themselves under water. They always had the choice though.

Aside from that, it’s a nice explanation. Enjoy.

Annabelle


AS a Light BEing

by Lisa Transcendence Brown

Yes… as you evolve in light, as you become a Light BEing, those BEings you used to fear, those beings that used to only exist etherically, you are evolving (back) INTO one of “them”.

WE, as Light BEings do not have the lower emotions that humans have, WE do not have the lower thoughts anymore, we do not have the lower anything… that the separated-ego-human once did…. for we have transcended all of that from within, purged and cleansed it from our cellular body, from deep within our muscles, bones, glands, organs, flesh and skin.

Through the activation of CRYSTALS our body begins a huge purification process that human’s cannot fully understand. One must actually experience it. Technically all already are and will, they just don’t fully understand what is happening within their physical body structures. Human’s keep trying to “fix” this process, diagnose it, treat it, control it….

This is about LOVE. Pure Divine Essence Love….

As the Light of your Soul actives inside of you it TRIGGERS (activates) an action to occur. It triggers a bio-chemical process, an entire transformational process, a re-vamping, re-configuring, re-calibration, re-structuring phase of not only your whole physical anatomy, but of your whole physical reality too.

That fear that was in your kidneys was keeping your body out of tune, that anger/control/obsessiveness in your liver, that lack of speaking truth as love was in your thyroid, those walls around your heart/tight muscles, those brain pathways must open up and re-map completely….. the blood that carries all through your body, pumps life from your heart to the rest of your body…. every little cell….

Every body part, every gland, every organ, every cell must completely re-work itself….

Love must stream through your body… and love brings deep profound love, gratitude, appreciation, peace, joy and REMEMBERING of all FORGOTTEN when you/each entered the unconscious matrix, the amnesia realms, the realms of unconsciousness….

As a Soul, you chose an unconscious body that held the ability to play out the human experience you chose, the one that held within it’s DNA what you needed to experience BEFORE it was TIME to awaken fully… which is NOW.

As you sleep you awaken, as you walk around foggy/groggy, you are leaving the old matrix simulated existence and moving into a whole NEW ONE. As you sleep, reality will start to change. First inside of you… then out there. What you once “thought” you knew is no longer true. What once made you happy won’t fulfill the lack places inside of you anymore….. The only thing that will fill those spaces is PURE DIVINE LOVE for you/connected with your own SOUL…. inside……

Your focus will change, your desires will change, you will change…. as you become LIGHT. Your body constantly re-calibrating, gravity will come and go as your body anchors more light. Your physical matter mass will continually change too. The more presence you have/more present you are, the slower you go, the more space you have inside of you and all around you… The more you will FEEL physical matter outside of you…. Clutter will create chaos with your energy/thoughts, things will take up space, so in order for you to expand …. you need SPACE and lots of it….

Nature becomes a necessity, instead of a “I don’t have time for that”. Alone time for your Soul to emerge, speak louder, for you to HOLD THAT CONNECTION stronger is a necessity too.

You start to realize what no longer feeds you, inspires you, fills you anymore. “All of a sudden” you desire something different. Simplicity in one way, for our hearts are simple…. yet we also desire MORE. More love, more happy, more peace, more kindness, more sacred respect… all of a sudden you will no longer tolerate the lack-filled programs that used to be your world….

As Light BEings, we do not have the lower emotions anymore. They completely go, unless we have a huge light activation that activates cells that held a dormant energy of an old vibration… then there is a trigger and it’s released….. we don’t project, we don’t go unconscious, we just honor our body upgrading itself. We honor what we need to experience, because we know that it brings forth more awesomeness, more freedom, more peace, more abundance, more exquisiteness…..

Humans can’t understand the simplicity of peace, the simplicity of pure happiness without the need for chaos, or words or anything. Our worlds are not defined by anyone or anything, an identity…. nothing…. just love….

Your Crystalline LightBody Structures process a ridiculous amount of information as it streams light. The crystals give you the ability to process at a ridiculous rate, simultaneously…. you need not think, you just know. It’s all right there…. inside and in your field…. Simultaneous existence… no separation… totally unity with/as all from within.

Your Crystalline LightBody processes for you. Your job is to keep your atmosphere clean, keep your self in an observation space, honor your body so it can do what it needs to do. Sleep, get out in nature, slow down, pull away when you need and then get in there and get busy when you feel/see inside that it’s time to DO.

As you EMERGE FROM THE FOG/AMNESIA (this will occur on & off in different phases), it’s time for you to start to contribute (not that it’s not always time), but it’s different here. You can maintain the ability to stay expanded and DO what you came here to BE/DO. As you return to the ability to function as a multi-dimensional here, how you function is very different now… and you must “learn” to function energetically……

The fog/amnesia can last a whole lifetime until now… it’s can get strong at times if you are lifting tons of veils….. You are activating an anchoring YOUR DREAMS in the PHYSICAL HERE. You cannot do this in total control as a human…. for your human doesn’t understand how this works and it constantly tries to inner-fear with the process. It tries to apply old outdated beliefs to a new process it’s not experienced in this human existence… It tries to match human mentalities with an experience that transcends all things human. This won’t work…. only temporarily… like everything else that human aspects try to do….

Listen to your body, it’s conscious, it speaks to you. Listen to higher wisdom/guidance inside and if you are not sure yet, then there are higher self/source Light BEings already here… in the physical… WE write to you daily, we teach, we share, we speak your truth, we activate your soul…. and then choose what resonates, what is feels true to you… throw the rest out… let everything else go.

Until you fully respect and love yourself, totally appreciate you… you are not going to have the capability to hold this for anyone else. Until you see your own worthiness, until you value you and what you have to offer here (which is limitless too), you won’t appreciate others, you won’t appreciate what they contribute…. Until you stop judging, you can’t break that cycle of lack. Until you open up fully and stop fighting, you can’t experience the total pure peace and bliss that higher consciousness existence offers you… IN EVERY MOMENT.

As your heart opens, your mind will be confused. This is the purpose. As you EXIST from your higher-aspect-heart-mind, these will synchronize to work together … your power will return, your true and pure you will return, you won’t need to struggle, suffer or live in lack anymore.

You/All have an ENTIRE EXISTENCE unfolding/materializing every moment of every day. All you have to DO is allow it, participate in it, choose it and DO whatever it takes to LIVE AS YOUR SOUL instead of trying to live as an unconscious human…..

Your challenge will be you…. to stay conscious until you can maintain consciousness in all that you are and do. To observe you, to understand you, to listen to you, to see you…. to let go of judgment, to stop going small and hiding, to see your own programs and how what plays out in your own physical reality world IS YOUR CREATION… and that you are the ONE that hold the POWER to shift, transform, change, reprogram all from within.

If you keep allowing the same programs to play out, if you keep allowing old unconscious realities to play out…. then “out there is not unconscious” …. you are…. ♥

Leave the old behind… let it go… you have so much that WAITS FOR YOU…. yet it cannot come forth if you keep fighting it. Timelines are collapsing & converging bigger/more than ever before. You can shift to a NEW TIMELINE that’s in alignment with your SOUL. If you hold onto separation, your human resistance, then you are not going to in-JOY the experience, but it will teach you…. what do to/not to do…. anymore. And it will show you HOW ALL WORKS…. if you really care to pay attention and know.

Open your hearts loves! More more more more & more! A whole lot more! ♥ Have a magical day! ♥

Lisa Transcendence Brown – click here to visit her website.

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