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Divine Masculine and Divine Feminine Part One

I seem to be a lot calmer about the wider Shift of Consciousness now that I have been exploring it for some 7 or 8 years. Mercredan had said I was nearing the end of that exploration and I now have a contract/agreement to write a book about it to help others understand. I’ve started the book maybe 4 times now but not found my flow so, I once again, set it aside until the inspiration comes as I know it will.

My new topic I seem to be hungry to learn about is the gender issue, the sexuality issue. There seems to be so many people in the world out of balance. Not enough of them accepting of both sides to themselves, the masculine and the feminine we all have inside. People who get turned on by pain or being defaecated on. People who totally reject the gender they chose before they were born. Heterosexuals who reject friends who choose to be Homosexual. Homosexuals who reject friends who are Bi-sexual. Not enough acceptance, love or fluidity between the Yin and Yang we all possess.

Mercredan has said in a number of our sessions over the years that I rely on my masculine traits to be “successful” in the business world. I do this, I think, to emulate my father who was overly dominating in our household. I watched him stomp over my mother so many times and must have decided as a child that if I was “strong” like him then no man would stomp on me.

Yet, Mercredan was saying I veered towards the masculine because I thought the feminine was weak and that I was wrong in believing so. He also inferred that if I found the strength of my feminine I would be far more effective in my work, my relationships and every part of life.

Awesome. OK. So, where’s the answers?

Ah! They must be found. Mercredan has never spoon fed me answers. I must seek them and come to my own conclusions.

So, I think the place to start is to get a clearer idea of the definition of both Masculine and Feminine. Let’s start with the Masculine.

What is Masculinity and what are Masculine traits?

This video I did a few years back had some basics in it.

Each gender has characteristics which can be used in a positive and negative way. You’ll see this in the readings of astrologists and experts in zodiac as well who say hey, you’ve got this characteristic in your sign or on this birth date. It can be used for benefit yourself and the larger whole in this way. It can also be used to harm self and the larger whole in this other way. Your choice…

For now, I’m not just looking for a generally “manly” set of characteristics though. Let’s see if we can define the ultimate man. The evolved man. The Divine Masculine.

Search results brought up this superb article which I will copy for you. It has come from Spiritual Counsellor Sunyata Satchitananda. Here’s the link to the website and I will post at the bottom of the article too as the content is superb.

The Divine Masculine

by Sunyata Satchitananda

What is the Divine Masculine?

The Divine Masculine represents a spiritual, psychological, archetypal ideal—the best and most inspiring, elevating, and restorative aspects of masculine expression and manifestation in the universe. “He”—along with the Divine Feminine—exists on a transpersonal, universal level that manifests through an individual’s psyche and becomes thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors.

As multifaceted, spiritually-embodied beings, we each have a complex psychological and emotional constitution that produces one’s inner health and outer reality. Each one of us, man and woman, carries within our psyche both masculine and feminine archetypes. From these influences come all our conscious thoughts, plans, desires, goals and agendas. They intertwine and cooperate to produce a uniquely personal expression and experience of life.

For those seeking an expanded understanding of the Self, the Divine Masculine is not a distant, detached, jealous and vengeful male deity. The Divine Masculine (along with the Divine Feminine) acts as a shining mirror of the Self, revealing aspects that need compassionate attention and support to become one’s highest potential.

For a man reading this, you may wish to expand your understanding of masculine archetypes and see how these are showing up currently in your life and then consider evoking a more fuller, or “higher” expression. Men who consciously assimilate Divine Masculine energy express higher levels of awareness and spiritual states of being along with greater satisfaction in life experience. Women reading this are equally served by contemplating Divine Masculine qualities while seeking to integrate these into their inner male expression.

God, King, Priest, Warrior, Lover, Sage

The Divine Masculine comprises a group of archetypal energies that drives thoughts, emotions, desires, and behaviors culminating in one’s sense of right-relationship, or “flow” with life and feelings of satisfaction and well-being. There are many archetypes present in the psyche—six have been chosen to represent those with the strongest influence on conducive psychological functioning and one’s psycho-spiritual evolution. By regular conscious feeding of these archetypal energies—weaker aspects are nurtured to fullness.

A Suggested Practice

Those seeking to discover and “grow into” their expression of the Divine Masculine will want to:

  1. Contemplate what the “fullness” of each expression means to you.
  2. Contemplate how these currently show up in your life. Look for areas and ways you are already embodying #1.
  3. Don’t look for the places you are deficient or lack in the fullness of the archetype. Only look for what you ARE doing.

As you acknowledge and accept what you are already doing, you will notice more places where you already are, or are beginning to, embody the fullness of the archetype. Its like seeing in a dark room, after some time your sight “adjusts,” or expands, and you see more of what was already there. As you contemplate each archetype, you will notice more and more areas where it already exists in your awareness and behavior. This is due to radiation of the archetype energy spreading out in a “blossoming” or unfolding effect within the psyche and happens whenever archetype energy is accessed and stimulated. Contemplation also strengthens the awareness. Two things are accomplished—you see what is already there, reinforcing what is presently integrated, and you strengthen what is beginning to emerge in your awareness, behavior and ability.

Any aspects of the archetype that seem “new” can be integrated by imagining what it would feel like to think or behave in this new way and see what shifts of thinking and behaving that produces. As you do, look for circumstances or opportunities that could be positively affected by adopting these higher concepts, principles and motivations and seek to enable their presence.

The Archetypes

1 – God

The God archetype is the transcendent, connected-to-all-that-is, aspect of self. It is the part of us that resonates with transpersonal harmonious love for everyone and all beings. The God archetype is the domain of spirituality, mystical experience and intuition.

A man expressing the God archetype in its fullness feels like: he is synergistically connected to all that is and has the confidence of “knowing” resulting from this connection, has spiritual balance and orientation, and emanates unconditional love to all in his sphere of presence.

His power is in his presence—his spiritually centered awareness focused completely in the present moment. He embodies Love, compassionately expressed to whomever is within his sphere of presence.

When with him, you find yourself inspired with new ideas and inspired connections—creating new experiences. He stands for and contributes to the furtherance of the divine-right of happiness; equally for all races, genders, and sexual expressions.

He leads by inspiring: creativity, beauty, and truth seeking—fulfilling the highest ideals and principles, through example and not aspiration alone.

He is spiritually guided, supporting and sponsoring: creation, transcendence, and resolution in all its forms. He seeds thought forms and ideas—releasing ownership for the greater good.

A man in the fullness of the God archetype shows up as unconditionally loving, inclusive, open, welcoming, heart-centered, spiritually focused, supportive and inspirational.

2- King (Father)

The archetype of the King actively plays the central role of order and blessing, benevolence and fertility, strength and balance. While the God archetype seeds thought forms and ideas, the King births them and actively looks to their growth and further manifestation into existence —being the steward of these.

The King archetype governs the domain of material-manifestation, family, “kingdom”—your sphere of influence including your relationship to individuals and physical locations: i.e. home, neighborhood, community, etc., material wealth and abundance.

The King archetype has the sterling attribute of “unyielding strength of character” and is relied upon by all in the realm to not yield to less noble, self-serving interests or compulsions. Thusly, the King inspires and unites the realm to follow his leading. He combines this strength with intelligence, right-action and wisdom.

Being with a man who is in the fullness of the King archetype feels like this: He is supportive and nurturing of the well-being and easeful participation and happiness of those he engages with. He is a stabilizing and calming influence in all circumstances. By his balance and “potency” (strength, effectiveness) others are comforted and influenced to imitate his example. His demeanor is “seasoned” and carries wisdom with it, not adolescent impulsiveness.

The King archetype is complex with multiple aspects that comprise this unique expression of the divine. His wisdom carries a transpersonal selflessness—like a kind father. He is an agent of the divine having reverence for all life. He is benevolent, evenhanded, calm, caring and thoughtfully present—yet passionate in his whole-hearted support. He is settled in the knowing that everything is as it should be, everything changes, and there is no lack or anything to genuinely fear.

3- Priest

The Priest archetype is possibly the least known or understood and the least supported in our culture. The Priest archetype domain is that of spiritual awareness and insight—connecting with and revealing “occult” (that which is hidden) knowledge of the unknown realm to the enlightenment of the self and selfless benefit for the many.

The Priest is the transducer, connector, and facilitator between the material and spiritual world—one’s conscious personality and the divine realm of Spirit. He is a mediator of the powerful energies that comprise one’s inner community of archetypes and personality components, working closely with the King and Sage archetypes to create, manifest and bring spirit into form.

The Priest calls forth and directs energies between unconscious and conscious awareness, affecting our felt sense of well-being and competence in life. The Priest nurtures and care-takes the spiritual relationship between the ego-personality and Spirit, the Divine.

The Priest archetype in its fullness feels like this: You are with a man who is the master of his spiritual and material realities and knows how to call forth from spiritual storehouses what he needs to transmute energies that would overtake or topple other men not in this fullness. He is thoughtful and reflective, having depth to his presence and intellect. He knows how to obtain higher perspective and detach from (or become neutral to) inner and outer storms and how to connect deep inner truths and resources with his experience of life. He is not easily pushed or pulled by faddish influences but with grace and insight he brings power and confidence to difficult situations requiring resolution, change or shifting.

4 – Warrior

The Warrior archetype is the most represented and exploited archetype in our culture—being elevated and revered by the dominant patriarchal society as: disciplined leader and protector. While these are two of the Warrior’s sterling qualities, it is what comprises his fullness that makes this archetype truly a divine expression.

Warrior qualities include: decisiveness and clarity of thought, selfless service, genuine humility, strength of experiential “knowing,” courage to do what serves the highest good even when it is a personal challenge to do so. He serves to maintain and support established systems and forms consciously, without blind rigidity, being exemplary in loyalty to a greater good beyond personal gain.

He remains calm and centered while under challenge. He is inwardly aligned and integrated—in touch with his feelings, being warm and compassionate, appreciative and generous at every opportunity. He fights “the good fight” in favor of benefiting the greater good and making life more fulfilling for everyone.

Being in the presence of a man in the fullness of the Warrior archetype feels like this: His strength of stature is evident and unheralded—not needing accolades or compliments. He contributes without fanfare or needing to direct or “lord” himself over others. He eagerly responds to requests of service showing respect to all—especially to those “elder” to him, as well as other men, women, children, animals and the earth.

He “knows himself” and finds his place in collaborative projects, being fulfilled and contented with the collaboration and not by ambition or competition. The man in the fullness of the Warrior makes you feel safe while not being oppressed by his stature or protection.

5- Lover

The Lover archetype is perhaps the most misunderstood and yet familiar primal energy. The Lover archetype has been distorted into a selfish and dense expression that lacks breadth or spirit. Yet the Lover is the meeting and combining of sex and spirit, Eros, the universal urge to bond and unite. He comprises the alchemy that infuses spirit into flesh with desire -prompting engagement and erotic expression. While most commonly expressed in romantic and sexual form, the Lover archetype contains a much fuller, divine, expression:

The Lover archetype in its fullness is the primal energy of passion, exquisite engagement with life and ecstatic being -an alive and vivid world view. The domain of the Lover archetype is the primal urges of being: sex, food, well-being, procreation and is manifested in creative adaptation and initiatory experience.

The Lover is the epitome of Sensual. He is intimately interested in all forms of sensory engagement, seeing the world in all its splendor. He is the archetype of play and healthy embodiment without shame. The Lover archetype has a mystical quality that seeks to experience beauty and unity in daily life.

The man experiencing the fullness of the Lover archetype feels like this: He is sensual. He is open and invites you to touch—his mind, body and soul. He is “connected” (integrated) and relishes physical, psychological and spiritual connection with others that highlights integrated expanded awareness and experience. He is immersed in the experience, present in the moment, focused on the quality of the connection and engagement. He appreciates beauty in all its forms and makes each moment a “work of art.” He appreciates the “sensuous” experience of life and resonates deeply on many levels of being. He is sensitive to others needs and moods and is intuitively responsive. He is “in his body” —animating it with vital energy through dance, yoga, or movement. He brings a “joy of life” to any engagement or conversation. He has stopped “performing” and has relaxed into “being” -feeling without pressure to “accomplish” or “gain.“

6 – Sage

The Sage archetype is a very important aspect of the Divine Masculine expression for our species. The Sage is closely aligned with the Priest archetype, however the Sage emanates an additional aspect of advocating “right action,” dharma. The Sage is the Ego in service to, and “right-relationship” with, the higher Self’s power.

The Sage observes, tracks, scans, monitors data from all sources (within and without) and channels wisdom leading to “right action.” The Sage is detached from ordinary life flow, watching and engaging energies with wisdom and toned action as needed for synchronistic harmony of life.

Being with a man in the fullness of the Sage archetype feels like this: Unheralded, he quietly and deftly shares with others wise counsel and channeled direction that shifts the receiver into new possibilities and pathways that reflect “right action” for their life path. He quietly supports the wisdom of others, not seeking acclaim or notice for his contribution. He is thoughtful and reflective and rests in his felt connection with spirit and grounded connection with the earth, Gaia, the source of his wisdom and insight.

The Sage’s importance comes to the fore during crisis and intense need. Through the uniquely formed conduit that the Sage embodies, wisdom and “right action” become clear. With the Sage’s contribution we feel confident and assured that our path is the right one for us, we respond to life with a calm easefulness that transitions crisis and change with grace and wisdom.

Where the Priest archetype has a primary focus on the “inward” realm, the Sage archetype has an “outward” focus of service —to manifest channeled wisdom into being.

Author’s Website link:

Wow! Gets me excited just reading about it. If you’re a man looking to become the very best version of yourself, Sunyata’s exercise is a good one.

Finding your Divine Masculine Exercise

  1. Take each of the 6 archetypes and journal a bit about what each of them means to you. God, King, Priest, Warrior, Lover, Sage.
  2. Read Sunyata’s version of them above and imagine if you had those traits. How would you go about your day? How would you treat people? How would you carry yourself and communicate with others? What difference would it make in your life compared to how you relate to people now?
  3. Appreciate what pieces of these archetypes you are already demonstrating. The more you notice within yourself, the more potential you draw out of yourself. By putting some focus on it each day you can slowly draw your way of thinking and behaviour patterns towards the Divine version of yourself over time.
  4. I would add, as you notice the changes in yourself, more “noble”, more humble, more of service etc., also notice how others alter their own behaviour around you as a result. They may be inspired by the new you. They are likely to treat you differently and with a lot more respect – the type that can only be earned, not demanded.

That’s it for now. Come talk to me on the Facebook page with your findings and we’ll look at the Divine Feminine next.


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Devouring Life: A New Year Resolution

How to set goals in 2017For a long time now I’ve had my sights set on finding the perfect project to sink my teeth into and the perfect partner to sink my teeth into as well. I’ve helped so many clients over the years achieve and even surpass their own fantasies I figure I should be able to, not only achieve the same but, hey, why not upstage everyone and do it even better for myself.

The result has been like the pursuit of the holy grail. I set an impossibly high level of expectation on myself and on others which has distracted me from truly appreciating what I have in front of me at any given time.

Great insight!

So, Annabelle (I say with my coaching hat on) how are we going to change this view to get more benefit?

Enjoy the journey?

Nope, stretch it further.

OK, how about:

Devour every morsel of life

Much better.

From the higher perspective, human life is short, so short it is almost the blink of an eye. You can go through many lives living out the same lessons and not getting the answers. Making the same mistakes, being the victim, saying it’s the circumstance or somebody else’s fault or the elite or the weather – whatever you choose to blame – but you’ll keep being handed the lessons until you find your way through them.

Goal Setting in 2017

For me, it seems really strange that I’ve allowed myself to fall for that old fashioned goal oriented mindset. I’ve known for some years now that the way goals are set with coaching clients has changed dramatically. They are no longer reaching for a milestone to hang their hat on. The “goals” are now focussed around a direction to head, a deeper purpose to fulfil – which can be fulfilled in a number of different ways – or a feeling to feel on a regular basis.  So I feel like a bit of a wally that it’s taken me this long to bend my own goals to something more up to date.

What does “Devour every morsel of life” mean?

In Mercredan’s session last November he talked about moving up to a higher perspective while we are here on the ground. We get all excited by technology able to produce the “3D effect” via a pair of virtual reality goggles or at the cinema. Then we go outside and fail to recognise how magnificent this Earthly framework really is.

By devouring every moment you are alive with your senses and your appreciation you make a very different experience from what you’ve been living.

It’s just Mindfulness blah blah

You think you’ve heard it all before. “I must be more mindful… yeah whatever.” But, it has more impact than you think.

When you are tuned into the past, the beliefs and your emotions attached to those beliefs to create something similar in the future. The same old story.

When you are tuned into the future, you are missing all the amazing opportunities offered to you right now that would steer you towards what you want.

We talk about being present as if it’s just a fad diet, something trendy to talk about that doesn’t really have a lot of substance. Yet the opposite is true. You’ve asked for a lot of things in your life. The Universe is walking along side you jumping up and down to turn here, talk to this one over here, look at this word on this sign. It is working over time to give you all the clues and, without presence, your chances of picking up those clues becomes slim. Is it any wonder why you question the Law of Attraction works?

How often do you walk down the street absorbed in what’s coming up next in your schedule or stewing over what happened in the past? What if you simply noticed the 3D reality you are in?

How you view it makes a difference as well. If you judge the dreary people, the barriers, the pollution, the broken bottle, the smelly rubbish bin and decide this is getting you down – then you’d be right. It’s all a matter of choice. Law of Attraction “like attracts like” kicks in to draw into your life more of whatever you were focussing on.

On the other hand you could tune into:


See the light and shadow an artist sees as they draw or paint. See the textures, the colours in layers, the contours, the synchronicity, the gravity and lightness. When you look from an artist’s point of view there is beauty in the soft and the gritty. Without one you could not describe nor measure the other so, why judge it?


Lose your judgement because these smells are the smell of life, the smell of the neighbourhood, the smell of the city and the smell of the era we live in which would have been a different smell to 100 years ago.

From a dancer’s point of view I always thought it odd how people hated BO (body odour). I would always retort “That’s the smell of a live person. They would smell a lot worse if they were dead.” In fact, the smell of fresh sweat was very satisfying to me. Getting up close and personal with other sweaty dancers was not only familiar but it was a way of recognising them without sight. You could tell how close they were to you on stage by smell and by heat. Sure, some elements can influence the smell like nicotine, alcohol, garlic, asparagus etc. but generally each person had their own signature which allowed you to get to know the essence of them better. So, smell without judgement.


This has become my favourite way to turn the brain off when I want some meditation time. Just listen, again without judgement. What do you hear? What do you really hear underneath that? There was a great book someone lent me once, I think it was called “The Silence” which taught you to acknowledge a sound, then lift it on a layer of cloud above your head and listen to see what else you could hear underneath. As you lifted the layers away you could listen deeper and deeper. The world got more quiet until all you could hear was your own heartbeat. Awesome exercise. But the sounds around you don’t have to be lifted all the time. Just notice them. They are real, they are life.


This one goes without saying. Mindful eating has been encouraged for a decade or two now. If you eat with your mind on something else – particularly a digital device – you miss the whole experience of eating and can end up hungry or you don’t notice when your brain says you’ve had enough and you keep on eating beyond what the body needs. Eating with gratitude that there is food on the table is a valuable exercise.  When was the last time you appreciated your coffee or tea like a connoisseur? When was the last time you followed the cold water down your throat and into your torso? So much is there!


The textures or temperature are something we don’t often identify or describe to each other. With so much reference to what is on the internet these days we reduce our observations to sight and sound. What do you feel? Can you feel your clothes around your body right now (assuming you are not reading my blog naked), the floor beneath your feet. When you walk down the road do you feel the sun, the gentle breeze on your cheek, the change of weight as you shift from one foot to the other, the heat in a restaurant as you pass by a door opening. When was the last time you stopped and felt the rain? Again, so much is there which we ignore.

Sixth senses

Yes, there is more than one. Tune in to the mood of the environment, the vibe a person is giving off, the peacefulness a tree offers. Read between the lines of what someone is not saying. This increases your emotional intelligence.

Can you tune in to the emotions of the people who were last sitting in this chair or talking in this room? When it’s strong it is obvious. Were they arguing? Was one of them really sad? Were they hot for each other? It’s quite fun to check into the recent history you can pick up. This is what psychics practice regularly to find their answers. They are just doing what each of us has the potential to do.

Note I did use the word “devour” too, not just to eat, take in or consume your morsels of life. Rather than using your senses to draw in the details like a scientist, how about throwing everything you can into the experience with passion and enthusiasm? Think about what it is to devour something. The passion is barely controllable. Why control it?

Rather than be embarrassed that maybe other people will think you’re a little off your trolley crying over the beauty of a sunset or moaning in ecstasy over an ice cream, be the inspiration for them. Even if they laugh, they will remember it and you know already that the effect will ripple out to others in ways you cannot imagine.

Make a difference

All of these descriptions have been about observing what is already there but another thing to consider is, what are you creating? Are you waiting for the experiences to come to you or are you going to create some of these experiences? If you spend your days running by a tight schedule leaving little or no time for creativity or spontaneity, you’re setting yourself up for a pretty shallow day. If you have no expressive outlet you can find yourself taking it out on your loved ones or simply feeling like a walking zombie without feelings or emotions.

Tune into those emotions. Stir them up! Get them out.

If you’re grumpy or sad or anything negative you don’t want to be taking that out on someone else for the damage can be far beyond what you think. So find another outlet. Write it, paint it, dance it, sing it, run it off at the park, scream into a pillow. Releasing it gives it less opportunity to create illness in your body.

Summing it up

Coming back to my original changing of goals, we know through Law of Attraction that when you ask, it is given. Sometimes it arrives quite quickly, other times, what you ask for fits into the time line a few years later. If you ask again, you are confirming in your mind that perhaps the Universe didn’t hear you the first time and – uh oh – now the Universe gives you exactly what you believe which is that they didn’t hear you and nothing arrives.

So, once you’ve asked, know it’s on its way. Then, avoiding all fierce looks and determination – we’ve decided this time it’s not going to be hard work, right? – get in the flow, follow the queues and devour every second of the journey because you’ll never be in this spot at this time ever again.

Every day

1 – devour life with all your senses

2 – find a moment to be playful or to laugh

3 – find a way to express yourself honestly

4 – be the artist and create something beneficial or beautiful that wasn’t there the day before

Pretty simple? Go on, give it a try.

UPDATE: Here’s another great example of devoting yourself to the pleasure of existence.


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Vera Ingeborg: 3D to 5D explained

3d to 5d explained

One of the most popular questions I find new visitors ask when looking through this blog on personal evolution is What does it mean to go from 3D to 5D? I was given this 3D to 5D explanation by Mercredan some time ago but have been sent the following article this morning and I think it is a lovely explanation. Written or channelled by European writer Vera Ingeborg it avoids the scientific explanation and explains very fully about our changing mindset along with things we might experience as we move up and down the dimensions.

As she says, we do flux back and forth while we are still shedding our old selves but eventually we will get to the point when we no longer come back to 3D and the fear is gone.

Broadcast media know very well how the fear factor works in keeping people in 3D so, learning to simply observe what is happening in the world, rather than reacting all the time, can give you much internal strength and keep you on track for ascending to a higher way of living.

I completed a session with Mercredan yesterday which I haven’t been able to do for a while. It was wonderful in its comment on the changing world and what is happening around Trump with the US Election result. I will transpose that soon as I can and get it up on the blog for you.

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Anyway, let me pass it over to Vera for her version of 3D to 5D. Her website link is at the bottom of the post.



3D, 4D and 5D – The Dimensions and their Differences

When going through the processs of spiritual awakening, sooner or later we are confronted with the fact, that there seem to be more dimensions than the one reality we are living in and that we know so well. We start questioning our life and what used to be true for us all of a sudden starts crumbling. We are not so sure anymore if we are indeed living in a reality or if it is not so real after all. The higher dimensional energies are calling us. We start resonating with them and go on our quest to find out more about who we truly are. We learn about universal energies and different frequencies and what ascension truly means: An energetic shift from 3D to 5D by raising our frequencies to a much higher level and transmuting low frequencies of fear into unconditional love up to a point where no fear is left. We come across a lot of information and are learning a lot about ourselves, the Universe and humanity. A question that often keeps us busy is how to differentiate between the dimensions.
To understand the different dimensions and how they feel like better, let’s take a look at them individually.

The Third Dimension – The Material World of Fear

“Because we are living in a material world and I am a material girl…” Madonna pictures the third dimension pretty perfectly in her song. She describes how she will only go out with guys that have money to buy her things and how she fears losing her money once she got into that state of possessions. The third dimension is all about material, accumulating material and living in fear of losing it again. We fear to lose control. We fear to not be secure and to not be good enough. We don’t trust people, because they could take our wealth away from us. So we try to reach power over others to be in a stronger position. We define ourselves on this plane by what we possess and what we do for a living. We believe to be separated from God and from everyone and everything. As long as we are not one with Source, we cannot experience oneness with all that is. We believe that death is something painful, dark and finite. We believe that we live one life and that is it. We believe this world to be a place of scarcity. Therefore we think we have to fight hard for our well-being because there is not enough for everyone. We think that life is supposed to be a competition with winners and losers. We think it is okay to lie, because everyone does it in this game. We are convinced that we have to be right about things. We believe in certain roles for men and women. Men being the strong nurturer and fighter, women being the weak caretaker. This has been changing with the rising of the feminine during the past decades, but the true nature of masculine and feminine still have not been fully understood. With regards to relationships and sex, we believe that we cannot be whole without another person. We believe we need someone else to make us happy and whole. We experience joy in very rare occasions. In situations of breath-taking beauty be it in nature or during a sexual orgasm. These are the rare moments that take us into the NOW. The only place where the ego does not exist. We are so used to the ego that we don’t question whether it is normal that we spend all of our time in the past or in the future. The ego plays the “should have could have would have – game” in the past or jumps into the future playing the “let’s create scenarios” –game to be prepared for any possibilities. We don’t see that the only real place to be in is the NOW.

“Humans in the third dimension crave physical sex so much because that is the only opportunity for them to experience the merging of the masculine and feminine energies in perfect balance.”

Humans in the third dimension crave physical sex so much because that is the only opportunity for them to experience the merging of masculine and feminine energies in perfect balance. That is the root cause for this desire. In the third dimension, we do not understand that this is where the neediness for a partner comes from. We don’t understand that we can create this wholeness for ourselves. But: We not only can but must master it to access the higher dimensions. We cannot imagine that sexual desires can change from need to a sharing. In the third dimension, we have never learned to love ourselves. On the contrary, we were taught to believe that this is egoistic. The opposite is the case. Not loving yourself is ego-istic thinking and is what keeps you from being whole and keeps the void within you alive.

Energetically, the third dimension is a place of very low vibration and enhances the illusion of separation, duality and free will. Our higher self is not integrated into the physical body because it cannot handle the density and low frequency. It is connected with us through our spiritual body, but when our chakras are blocked, it hardly can get through to us. That causes the belief, that we are separated from God. In 3D, we actually think that our life is based on coincidences and that there is no destiny, as we are not aware of our true identity – a spiritual being in a physical body, suffering from amnesia. As we incarnate into the 3rd dimension, we forget who we truly are and get equipped with an ego mind that is only serving for this incarnation. It cannot remember any of our previous lives because it has not been there with us. Only our cellular structure and DNA carries memories from our family lineage, and our soul / higher self knows about our own experiences in past lives. As long as the ego mind is in the lead and our heart is closed, the connection to our soul is blocked most of the time. The communication with our higher self and the higher realms can only be felt, not understood with the rational mind. The ego mind is not able to process this amount of energy. As long as we are cut off, we cannot feel the truth, we believe our ego mind is supposed to be in the lead as it is oh so clever. And yes, it is – in keeping us away from our true self and in keeping up the illusions. Every time our intuition comes through and expresses our truth, the ego mind shouts out: “Prove it!” So we shut down again, as we are unable to prove what we feel. We continue to run around blind-folded, trying to figure out how life works and what we are actually doing. We believe we find the answers to our quest for happiness externally, outside of us. We adapt to the game and accept the 3D illusions as our reality, because everyone does. We suppress the questions about our purpose, our true origin and our talents and gifts. We must be mistaken to have these questions, because everybody else is living according to the same rules. If we would speak out loud our doubts and our true desires, we would just be considered to be insane and an unrealistic dreamer. So we just stick with the system, not realizing that we have been enslaved as our ego mind has been programmed with all kinds of false beliefs. We do not see that the whole system is a fake matrix based on fear. As long as people are in fear, you can keep them under control and make money with them. Lots of money. Insurances, pharmaceuticals and fashion are just a couple of examples how a lot of money is made with our fears. And we need to make more and more money to be able to compensate for those fears. We think we have to improve our status. Again and again – to be good enough and earn respect. We don’t even realize how much the material world, our possessions are controlling us and are keeping us in dependency. We need to protect what we have reached and make it even more to be prepared for worse times. In the third dimension, we are thinking negative thoughts and we are mistrusting everyone and everything.

“The illusion of duality in the third dimension allows us to experience light and darkness, good and bad, joy and despair, better and worse. We have the choice to act as saints or demons. That is actually the only choice we have: Love or fear.”

The illusion of duality in the third dimension allows us to experience light and darkness, good and bad, joy and despair, better and worse. We have the choice to act as saints or demons. That is actually the only choice we have on this plane: Love or fear. Light or darkness. That is what free-will allows us. As long as we are choosing fear, we are repeating our experiences and patterns until we learn to choose love. That is the beauty of the third dimension. Once we learn to choose love permanently, we come to enlightenment as our frequency raises significantly. That way, we overcome our ego-mind’s limits. We learn to let our heart and soul take over the lead in transforming our ego into a free spirit. We learn how the universal energies work and how we can create our reality. We understand that we had the steering wheel in front of us all the time. We just did not see it. We learn that there are no victims or perpetrators. There are only teachers that help us grow. We do not have to wait until we die to go into the light. We can do that while being in a human body.

The Fourth Dimension – the Magical Dream World

The fourth dimension is the dream world. It is also called the Astral Plane. It is a dimension that is less dense and much more fluid than the third dimension, but still hosts the illusion of duality and the ego is able to exist also here. It is the dimension of time. Imagine it to be a stream of energy hosting all events of one particular timeline. We usually visit this plane naturally during the night. Here, in our dream states, anything is possible. A mouse can be transformed into a lion, we can fly or breathe under water, we can be in many places at the same time and have conversations with the weirdest creatures. Experienced astral travellers are able to access this plane also during the day. This can become so real that they are actually experiencing out of body adventures or intense sexual encounters. This is the plane that shamans and ancient civilisations travelled to, to find out more and connect to the spiritual realms. These journeys gave them access to the underworld and the upper world. Many of them used drugs and special trance ceremonies to get there. Depending on the energetic vibration of people, traveling in the astral plane can be a very loving and exciting or a very scary and fearful experience. Spiritual drugs will never take us above the fourth dimension. Nevertheless, traveling the astral plane can be very insightful to learn more about ourselves, about our purpose and also about our fears as we can get into close exchange with our higher self here. No matter how far we travel in this dimension, we always stay in this particular timeline. On this plane it is also possible to tap into the collective consciousness and learn more from there. The astral realm is a place where light and darkness come into conflict easily. Dark magic has its place here, dreamwalkers for example can influence us on this plane easily when we are still full of fear and have not learned yet to set healthy energetic boundaries, i.e. when we are able to create our own light and sustain it so that it simply absorbs the darkness. Most people do not remember their astral experiences consciously, which makes it even harder to detect energetic manipulations.

“The fourth dimension connects darkness and light. On this plane, we can protect us only by applying the energetic universal laws, as there ar no human laws or regulations for control.”

The fourth dimension connects darkness and light. On this plane, we can protect us only by applying the energetic universal laws, as there are no human laws or regulations for control.

On a sidenote: People of higher frequency are not experiencing the astral plane consciously at all. That is why they often feel alone or think they imagine their awakening and ascension, because they don’t have all these crazy experiences other people get so excited about. These people’s body frequency is already higher than the fourth dimensional frequency from birth on. Higher frequency people often experience an unexplainable fatigue during their whole 3D existence, because the difference between the dense 3D frequencies and the much lighter 5D frequencies causes a permanent friction and the body has a hard time to deal with it. They go through 3D programming just as everyone, although they often have a much stronger feeling of “this is not right what is happening here” and are questioning and sabotaging the system often. A lot of higher frequency people look back on alcohol and drug careers because they are not able to cope with the density well and they are denying their spiritual gifts and talents. They just want to be normal and fit in at an earlier stage of their life. The problem: Drugs and alcohol are of much lower frequency than their bodies, that can cause permanent anxieties and depression.

Higher frequency people do not experience nightmares. They can have panic attacks and thought spirals before going to sleep or when they are half awake dozing, but their dreams, if they remember them at all, are taking place in 5D and above. Those dreams cannot contain fear or darkness, as those are the planes of unconditional love.

They are experiencing their ascension differently, in a much more subtle, heartfelt way. Once their awakening is initiated and they open up to their spirituality, the process usually happens faster than average, and they cleanse the 3D programming quite quickly as their system wants to return to its natural frequency as quickly as possible, once initiated. They are usually claircognizant – meaning that all of a sudden they know things without knowing why. That is because they have access to other timelines and dimensions. Usually that happens unconsciously. They simply lose a few minutes and feel cold and confused after such an experience. There is no better or worse of being of high frequency or not. The experiences are simply different.

The Fifth Dimension – The Plane of Light

Of all the higher dimensions, the fifth dimension is the last one of pure light and unconditional love, i.e. Source energy on the way down, before entering the realms of limitations and duality. This is the dimension beyond linear time, that means that many different timelines are available to access. Physical existence is still possible on this plane, although the body is lighter and of a different cellular structure. When the physical body is fully transformed into this structure, there is no pain. Further, there is no fear. It is the plane of unconditional love and abundance, manifest in the physical. Our higher self has been fully integrated into our physical body and has taken over the guidance. This feels very differently from just channeling the higher self. The first time your higher self moves into the physical body fully is quite overwhelming. It is an intense energetic flow of unconditional love and everything feels light and at ease. Before the higher self can be fully anchored into the physical body, the healing of all bodies (the mental, the emotional and the physical) has to be completed. Therefore, your higher self will slip in and out for a while until it can move in permanently. You will know when your higher self is integrated, when you do not question the universal flow and simply trust your journey. You do not feel the need to interfere or control that flow anymore. In the fifth dimension, all of our actions are based on love. It is the plane of oneness, where we feel the connection to everyone and everything around us, including the holy Source energy. In the fifth dimension, we live in Unity Consciousness, but still recognize ourselves as individuals as part of the whole. On this plane, we remember who we truly are and are aware of our eternal soul. Manifestation is easy and the life of our dreams is our reality. In 5D everything comes without an effort as we have rediscovered that the Universal energetic flow always guides us perfectly. There are no limits. We live in complete freedom and authenticity. As there is no fear, there is no aging and no illnesses. We live as long as we want, until we decide to leave the body. This happens smoothly and without any pain.

“Living in 5D means living from the heart. We connect through our hearts and can feel the connection and love instantly.”

Living in 5D means living from the heart. We connect through our hearts and can feel the connection and love instantly. In the fifth dimension, our sexual desires change as we have reached our internal balance between the masculine and feminine energies. We have become androgyneous energetically. Sexual energies can be experienced without physical contact with others. They can be created by the individual. Therefore, sex does not happen out of neediness or lust anymore, but becomes a sharing between two whole people that resonate on the same energetic level. Or it is experienced alone and is just as beautiful. In addition, the Third energy, the Divine energy is part of this experience and sexuality becomes the holy trinity in perfect equilibrium. It is the most powerful energy of creation. Therefore, it is not surprising, that sex in 3D was defined to be something shameful and sinful. To keep people from discovering their true creative power.

Once someone has raised the own frequency onto a 5D level, the return to the lower dimensions is not possible anymore, unless the soul chooses it consciously. This was the choice a lot of star seeds and angelic beings took to help humanity ascend. People in 5D are immune to low frequencies as there is no resonance. They do not attract any darkness and live in the light exclusively. They cannot be seen by people in 3D if they have not already started their own ascension process and are open to the higher frequencies. That is when duality and linear time are dissolving and all there is left is a life in the NOW. All experiences are embraced with gratitude, as the soul knows that everything has its purpose for the own growth and expansion of consciousness. Contact to extra terrestrials and angelic beings becomes easy and is integrated in the daily experience. We receive information directly from spirit and telepathy, teleportation and telekinesis become possible. The fifth dimension is the dimension of deep trust and an inner knowing that everything is happening perfectly. On this plane, we have learned to go with the flow and let Source work through us to create miracles. There is no need to be right in 5D, as there is no ego. Our ego has transcended into a free spirit and is working hand in hand with body and soul. In the fifth dimension, we do not take anything personally anymore from people who have not reached that plane yet. We know about their own baggage and journey and do not judge them or blame them but love them unconditionally, as we know they are part of the whole. We know that there is no danger, so we know that there is no need for protection. We know that our light shines so bright, that it absorbs the darkness automatically.

In 5D we live according to the universal energetic laws, knowing that we create what we think. There are no manmade rules or laws, because people fully trust the energetic flow and where it takes and guides them to. There is no need for possessions or status, as there is no competition and nothing to compare. Everything becomes a sharing. We just are. We love ourselves and appreciate our individuality as part of the whole. We know that our needs are always met and we are always taken care of. Gratitude is always present. When we live in 5D permanently we have reached a state of enlightenment. No wonder that it is referred to as heaven on earth.

The texts I share are always based on channelings I receive and/or on experiences of clients and my own. I do not claim what I share to be the ultimate truth. I encourage everyone to only take what resonates to find your own truth and wisdom. As this is universal wisdom, I do not claim any copyright. Please feel free to share this content as long as you keep its message complete so that the meaning does not get twisted. Thank you. With lots of light and love, Vera Ingeborg

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Read Mercredan’s explanation of 3D to 5D here.

Learn about personal Life Coaching from Kitegirl Annabelle Drumm here.

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Being Worthy

law of attraction love advice tips mentor teacherThere are many times in life when you feel like you are treated badly, overlooked, shunned, ignored and just straight up insulted. Yet, the world only reflects back what you feel about yourself. If it’s throwing at you something that you don’t feel then you’ll usually miss it. It will go over your head and not affect you.

The path to evolving and healing comes when you can take up the habit of seeing these happenings around you to be reflections. Then, rather than reacting and taking offence or being hurt you can say “Hey, check that out. That person said this to me and I felt low (sad, mad, injured, small, offended …) Therefore there is some element of truth I found in what they said. What was the element I considered to be truth that hurt the most in what they said?

If you look at it more objectively without getting swamped in the emotions, you can then pick out the words, or interpretation which needs a bit of work to remove from your psyche. Once you’ve removed it, you will see similar words or actions happening less because there is no reason to reflect it back at you anymore. You no longer have that belief about yourself in your vibe which is broadcast out to the world so you no longer get the same “ping back”.

Being Not Worthy

Many of the things that hurt us stem from how worthy we feel. There are plenty of self development gurus and experts who will yell at you “You’re a God/Goddess, you’re a super star, you’re special! See it, believe it and your life will change.”

So we go “Oh, ok. I’m a Goddess. Whoo! Yeh! How exciting. No, not really.” We can say a million affirmations, put on a nice dress, push out our chest and strut about but it really just feels like we are kidding ourselves. Like playing fancy dress.

If you find this is the case, how about simply being as worthy as everyone else?

Learning to be Worthy Again

Pinpoint the thing you have stuck in your psyche and reason with yourself in a new way. Let’s look at an example.

One I see which is very common amongst those I help is whether or not they are worthy of love or admiration.  How can we see this differently? Try whichever affirmations are most useful to you or make you’re own ones up in a similar fashion.

There are others who are older than me and younger than me who are deeply loved by their partner. I am just as worthy as them.

There are others who are thinner or fatter than me who are deeply loved by a partner. I am just as worthy as them.

There are others who are poorer or richer than me who are deeply loved by a partner. I am just as worthy as them.

There are others who are brighter or dumber than me who are deeply loved by a partner. I am just as worthy as them.

There are others who are more talented or less talented than me who are deeply loved by their partner. I am just as worthy as them.

There are others who are more successful or less successful than me who are deeply loved by their partner. I am just as worthy as them.

There are others who are more extrovert or more shy than me who are deeply loved by a partner. I am just as worthy as them.

I am just as worthy as that person and that person and that person.

You see? You can pick whatever the main criticism is that you have of yourself and prove there is no evidence to suggest you are less worthy than anyone else.

As an exercise, just like the Beautiful exercise we’ve done before, popping this thought into your mind on a frequent basis, even for a week, can dramatically turn your mindset around. You don’t have to be a super star or a God/Goddess. Just accepting that you are as worthy as the next is enough to knock out the resistance and start to bring you a different, more positive sort of reflection from the world that you can be, do or have whatever you are reaching for.


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Mercredan: Parenting skills, Adolf Hitler and Past Lives

world shift in consciousness 2016Another great session on Monday with Mercredan on our evolving Consciousness – transcript is below. If you’ve ever wondered why all that terrible stuff had to happen in World War II, this conversation contains another clue. There was more about us as a changing species and planet this time too which he hasn’t mentioned for a while – more of the big picture.

Mercredan brought up an interesting idea about identifying the ideas imposed by parents. I worked on an exercise to help bring those out over this week which I will type up for you in a few days.


Mercredan session

30 May 2016

Channelled by Francis Evans

Interviewed by Annabelle Drumm

Click here to learn more: Who is Mercredan?

Topics: simplifying and letting go, parenting influence on children, freeing the mind, living life by consequences, looking at the bigger picture, past lives and learning over a lifetime, changing history, Adolf Hitler, resolving the revenge issues



M: Good morning and once again it is my privilege and pleasure to come and spend these few moments of your time. The world evolves in cycles. There are cycles within cycles within cycles. Vast cycles and personal cycles. Things begin with a conception and evolve over a lifetime to the conclusion that births the next cycle, whether that is individual or social, civilisational and so forth. Everything in its place. The difficulty for humankind has always come from the conclusion. Always more difficult to finish than it is to begin something new. Humans often find it difficult to connect what has been learned and tie it into a final analysis, that is a final conclusion, so that One can understand how that produced the consequences and conclusions that brought that about. In other words, when One is at the phase of ending some process, shall we say, what is the consequence? What is the actions and how that unfolds. Do you understand what I mean?

A: Yes, in many ways.

M: So, a life cycle is a beginning, a birth and the process of consequences that leads inevitably to its conclusion. It is that One holds to the end of the conclusion only by holding on to the old frameworks, old ideas and so forth. That is enough to stimulate a conversation.

A: Mm yes. It feels to me though we are… well as you said, that it refers to everything. I wonder if there is something we can offer our dear friend (the channeller) along these lines as he is currently trying to conclude and wind up before he starts something new.

M: In the end, when One holds onto things, even if they are minor, the consequence is that it “peaks” at the end period of time. Then One eventually has to release it as easily as you can.

A: What do you mean by “peaks”?

Simplifying and letting go

M: If One has no need to hang onto things, then as they come, the usefulness is perceived and they are released along the journey as it were, then One is not met at the end with too many options. I am not saying that my dear friend has held on because that is not truly the case but, over time, the accumulation always seems to take effect and simplification is what is required. Not just in his own personal journey but in the journey of the cycle of the civilisation because humans in the new species will find it more difficult to keep up with the ever increasing choices and eventually will realise it is not necessary. In other words, as we have pointed out, technology simply emulates the natural ability of the human organ. So, there are only certain necessary qualities. For example, you might say “But what about the requirements for a physical article?” That is, do you not need the printer to print out a copy so that it is solidified? But that is unnecessary if the memory is so attuned that it can not only remember what is being provided but updates it as that information comes into being.

A: Mm, mm.

M: You understand, if One can rely on One’s inner tapping into the records then what is the point? You understand you are in a different framework and as such then, a different quality than One’s interactions and One’s creativity provide the 3 dimensional structure, the co-ordinates in which to operate.

A: Mm. So if we look at civilisation as a whole, many of the lessons you have given me around around resolving baggage and old beliefs and getting rid of identities, and if there was a way of getting that news out to civilisation, not just in the book of my own journey but, to get them to question “What do we need to keep if we did simplify?” Is there a way you can suggest that would be useful in getting that message out? What would you focus on? I mean there’s so many things to focus on.

M: We have talked about letting go of the identity but, your identity is the structure in which you occupy.

A: OK maybe it’s the wrong word. I mean personality traits which no longer benefit.

M: Shall we say this. When you look around your environment, around your kitchen, around your living spaces, all you see is yourself. Your identity is in everything and not just that, but it is imposed upon anybody to enters into the environment. You understand?

A: Yes I do.

Parenting influence on children

M: Your children, then, are much more than themselves. They are your identity imposed upon their choices. So they build their own identity from their exposure to your own and that has gone on for generations. Whereas if you simplify, there is much less going on around that is imposed upon them. Once the inner qualities are activated, the only quality that is imposed is activating the inner qualities and once that occurs then every individual can sort out what is themselves and what is another. So you start to see that your children are not your belongings.

A: No

M: Even if you think that they are themselves, you look at their qualities and their personalities. In reality, of course, they are not themselves at all because you are not even your own self.

A: (laughs) How every confusing.

M: When you look into yourself you can see, what is it that you most often rail against? What you find disturbing, that is holding you back, is only the qualities that were imposed upon you as conditions for belonging to a family. In other words conditions to belong. Do you understand what I mean?

A: Yes, well, I try and think what I rally against…. If I look at… because I’m assuming whatever I throw at my children is probably what I am rallying against myself.

M: Of course.

A: Yes, but I would say that the things that are on my mind are facing responsibility, finding self discipline…

M: Of course, but also you want to be yourself. So you make out, “Be yourself! Be all that you can be.” You still give your children the message and then you hold them in your responsibility framework. The encouragement for excitement and freedom rails against the need for responsibility in actions. You understand?

A: No I don’t because I thought that the idea is as we “grow up” spiritually that we do become more responsible.

M: Exactly that. And the question is, does One teach that you can do whatever you want but consequences will be the result? When One says to somebody, ”You do not have to be responsible because consequences will determine. So if you wish to lack responsibility then, you inherently wish for the pain that will inevitably come from it.” You understand what I mean?

A: Yes I do. So rather than lecturing about being responsible it is better to talk about consequences so that they can make their own decision.

M: Of course and it is not your consequences. It is not what you are putting. It is what occurs naturally from such behaviour. If you are self centred, for example, others will distance themselves from you. They will see through you. They will not trust and you will not find happiness in that arrangement. So if you wish for happiness then, better to explore the nature that will bring that as a consequence. Nobody can tell another person what that is so they must learn how to perceive consequences as early as possible. So you are taking away all of the rules that control things, the conditions that are everywhere within your physical environment.

A: Yes of which there seems to be more and more in the community.

M: Of course.

A: They are doing the opposite, aren’t they. They’re not helping people learn about consequences, they’re just trying to control them which makes people rebel more and then they get more irresponsible.

M: Of course and then you have your society which lacks any empathy for anybody else. You have turned it into a free for all grab zone and more and more possessions that are drowning you. Even when technology shows you the results of people who are drowning in a quagmire of nonsense, you look at them and you laugh at their stupidity and yet, all around, you are doing exactly the same.

A: (laughs) Oh dear.

M: You understand, different things of course, but still heavy loads to carry and then you meet the consequences of giving up your dearest possessions.

A: Yes. I want…

M: … I just want to complete that – In the end, that is why so many people hold onto life even when life is not worth hanging on to at all. They’re hanging on because they do not want to let go of all of their things, as if you cannot take the memory of your children with you. You have to have the photographs and…

A: videos

M: Videos and the drawings and everything else to remind you when they are not even the same as when they were taken (photos and videos). 

A: Mm

M: Do not want your children to have freedom and that is of course because, why should they have freedom when you have never allowed it for yourself? And you were never allowed it when you were a child and even when you meet your parents they still want to make you a child.

Freeing the mind

A: Yes. Well if we were going to go from this very point with this particular body and say “OK, let’s give her freedom.” What does she need to be free? What are the things that hold her back the most? I would think that mental beliefs would be the biggest thing that hold her back rather than physical.

M: If you look at yourself what holds you back most of all? From your freedom, that is.

A: Is it fear of consequences?

M: Of course. You understand, what is the thing most is your responsibility.

A: Yes indeed.

M: Because it is your responsibility, and only your responsibility, for your children’s behaviours because they have no freedom. You cannot trust that they will not have challenges, that they will not find themselves in difficult circumstances, that they are not wise enough.

A: And surely that is just a reflection on lack of trust of self as well?

M: Of course. Because if you truly brought them into the world then they would have their own innate sense of security.

A: Mm, which I’ve probably beaten out of them by this stage.

M: Of course.

A: (laughs)

M: Because you send them to the education.

A: Ugh

M: That is, to be conditioned to be productive members of your society. In other words, so they fit in to the cogs so it continues in the old way. It is at this point that it is, what we have said, the old cycle in conclusion. The cycle of species which is of course, far greater than the cycle of a civilisation. The species has outlasted itself and, as we have pointed out, in its dying throws it still wants to hang on to the old ways.

A: Right, so in order for the species to learn to let go – because this is the last of this species, right? The new species are being born now.

M: Of course.

A: What can help them learn to let go? I know you could force them with Mother Earth deciding to do some catastrophe.

M: Of course that is what is happening but is it…

A: That’s not the only way though. Are there ways that we can help?

M: How it is that One finds Oneself? Because until One opens the “cell door”, shall we say, until One releases Oneself from the prisons of mind, nothing can transform. Until you truly perceive the prisons that you have created, in other words, when you look at how you perceive the world, how you see yourself, how you feel in the world; how can you possibly recognise it is consequence that has lead to this?

A: Mm, alright. The series of questions you gave me before around consequence have been very useful. I’ve used them a number of times now.

Living life by consequences

M: When you start to live life from consequences then you start to put yourself at the other end of the time framework. You understand, we have talked quite a lot about the extra dimensions. When you start to see that time is a framework just as solid as a particular dimension of length or so on, then there are different avenues. That is, One is not necessarily looking at past, present and future, but if One considers future as consequence, then in the present, One can perceive what is the result of the action? Then One adjusts the present in light of the future and One’s reference library of experience then, is what has happened in the past. In other words, when some consequence occurs, then what must I have done to bring this into being? When you determine that the consequence has nothing to do with your own actions, then of course you are in denial.

A: I was just thinking of the example where a child is brought up with parents who are very conservative and very limiting, controlling. When you get to be an adult, is it just to do with the reaction to the parents that is the way that you take it on yourself? How can you not say anything at all about the parents contribution to that?

Looking at the bigger picture

M: The difficulty with such conditions is that One is determined not by the conditions but how One accepts the conditions and how One manages life. Do you understand? One can live within the controlling environment of the parent and still be free. That is One can manage the world beyond the control because One is perceptive. Then the parents find it difficult to deal with the magical quality of this child’s life. No matter how much they put on the child, the child transforms it.

A: Mm, but with such a controlling parent would they not just step up the control and make it even more violent or more controlling?

M: That is difficult to say exactly but let us say this. A child that is magical often brings the concern back on to the parent. Often then, if the parent is a violent parent, shall we take for example, the parent most often is frightened of the child, because they may learn very early, if they unleash their violence, consequences occur for them. So better to leave the child alone and let them do their own thing. So the child is not that they are rebelling as much as they are transforming.

A: Yes, continuing to be magical.

Past Lives and Learning over a Lifetime

M: Of course and there are plenty of examples of such beings. Usually of course, a child will choose its parent in line with the qualities it would choose to develop over the lifetime. So someone who has been out of control, that has done things that are not so wise, will often choose a controlling parent to impose rules and regulations. Then when they come to adolescence and they break out, they have been enough innately conditioned to be able to learn self control even if, in the beginning, they do not.

A: Mm, so it’s kind of a balancing trick then.

M: Of course, because One is in the process of getting to the end of the life (and a life a the end of a species cycle, at that) and completing as much perception, as much wisdom as possible.

A: Mm. When you speak of that though, in the example you’ve given, that’s two lives which appear to be in a line. I don’t quite understand this, it’s sort of linear then. So if you have an out of control life, and say you get drunk and wrap your car around a pole and die, then you come back again with controlling parents, then that is not a consequence but a reaction to the last life which kind of makes it one ahead of the other. How does that work? (I am questioning this based on what he has told me previously about all lifetimes existing simultaneously in the same field rather than time being linear in one direction.) 

M: Not always. You understand, when One experiences such a lifetime, One loses control and dies in the process, after the period of unfurling and the choices that comes about, One is looking then for a position that has such controls imposed, in place…

A: Are they necessarily put forward though, in the ages? (later years) You can go back and do one in the 15th Century?

M: Of course.

A: Right

M: Then One might choose to be “slave” and under such conditions one is in total control [of another]. One can, having learned the lesson, One begins to ascend in the roles to become “trusted slave”, often with lots of freedom.

Changing history

A: Right OK. And also, when I did some regression hypnotherapy, you confirmed that what we had done had changed the life that we were looking at – that was the poor boy that was freezing to death on the street – if we change that life and it affects another life … so surely that means that history changes constantly anyway.

M: That is correct.

A: So how can we write anything in a book if all this time … do the books change?

M: It is all in a fluid nature and shall we say, the books fall out of date. New things seem to overtake. The book seems not to be accurate or not to represent and eventually fall out of print and become oddities in people’s collections.

A: So the text doesn’t change?

M: Often not. (often not definitely?) Mostly, the texts simply disappear. And, often this is not an historical manifesto. In other words, mostly lifetimes occur in ordinary populations, not in history making ones.

A: I see, right. They must change as well though.

Adolf Hitler

M: Of course but in most cases the resonance requires lots of different opinions. In other words, shall we take the example of an Adolf Hitler. Because of the consequence of actions, this one is appealing to many different beings who wish to experience absolute control and absolute lack of control. Personal lack of control and social absolute control.

A: How did it appeal to so many at the same time? Did it draw in many people from many many different eras all into that one lifetime?

M: Many have been watching and waiting for the perfect environment in which to engage, in which to seek revenge and so on and so forth.

A: Perfect for so many things then, wasn’t it.

M: Of course. So many people wanting to experience what they have delivered to others and the result then, there are many opportunities to become victim or perpetrator but, in the end, those that are the guiding force, the higher officers of the process, offer many opportunities for individuals to explore ultimate control.

Resolving the revenge issues

A:  So as history gradually changes, as each soul rises and ascends in the inner world, will all of that World War II period…

M: Resolve

A: Fold back, right.

M: You understand, because while you make certain ones victims and perpetrators, there is no recognition of the interconnectedness of the choices.

A: That’s coz we can’t see them down here.

M: Of course and if One looks from then on, One can almost easily see how that has transformed into exactly the same situation. In other words, the same groups are swapping roles from victim to perpetrator back to victim and so on. They have not yet learned the equality equation. You understand then in this instance, one group sees itself as special, a second group sees itself as special (Jews vs. Aryan race) and annihilates the first group so their specialness is extended and stamped into history. The second (first?) group then re-emerges and remounts it’s requirement for specialness and stamps its authority on everybody else (Jews vs. Palestinians and Western World etc.) and a group then becomes the latest victim which eventually begins to assert itself on the rest (ISIL) and on it goes.

A: Mm, its carrying on the family tradition, isn’t it. This is the conditioning of parents.

M: Of course.

A: So with the new species coming about, will that dampen it a little?

M: Shall we say, the new species automatically understand the principle of interconnectedness. They can automatically see the results and consequences of thinking certain ways.

A: Does that mean that within 30, 40, 50 years we will run out of wars?

M: Even before that, the old system will not continue to be productive in such a sense. Values are already transforming.

A: Mm. No wonder this is an exciting time to be alive.

M: Of course.

A: (laughs)

M: Because it is the end times. Reading of course, not that the planet is ending, not that civilisation is ending, but the old ways of acting and being and thinking are concluding.

A: But with each of us in our little 3D bodies, in a single life time – for that is all that most of us can see – is it possible for us to wind up, you said draw up all the information to make a final conclusion…

M: Of course

A: Can we see enough of that in this little body to be able to do that or do we need to be in that unfurling stage (just after physical death) in order to truly conclude on it?

M: As soon as One is disconnected from the physical reality as existence, that is when One subtlety recognises One creates everything, then One realises One is not limited to a physical incarnation. Then transformative, One realises that One’s life is not limited to the physical body at all and that One can drop the physical body and continue the journey.

A: But when you get to that point and you have that choice, you can still do your conclusion? You can round it all up?

M: Of course, you have already rounded it up, as you say. You have already drawn together all the threads and recognised it was all a beautiful television drama.

A: (laughs) I thought you were going to say it was all a big joke. (laughs) Not really. An experiment. An experience.

M: You understand, you are watching your movies of war and destruction and you can see the cracks in it. Then you start to be amused. What nonsense this is, how this hero is just the focus. This is the better paid actor. The surviving actor. The hero of the story that maintains it by the most unlikely events.

A: Yes and killing everybody else like he’s meant to be the hero.

M: Of course.

A: (laughs)

M: So when One perceives it as that, then what else is there left to hold on to?

A: That’s right, then you can let it all go.

M: Of course and the paradox is you can take it all with you.

A: Yes indeed. (laughs) Ok.

M: Is that enough for today?

A: A beautiful lesson, yes. Thank you.

M: Then thank you and good morning.

A: Good morning.




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